That person you are missing right now is making a conscious decision every day to not have you in their life & that should be all the closure you need.
You’re not lazy. You’re tired. You’ve been living in survivor mode for so long. Your mind is exhausted! You are still processing trauma. Be kind to yourself please.
I always feel so bad when I see elderly people hawking stuff.
I sometimes cry and buy what they’re selling cus I hate to see life so hard for an elderly person like that. 😭😭😭
As irrelevant as some of the tweets about labour and pregnancy may seem on the timeline, I feel compelled to add my two cents tho nobody send me
Here’s the truth: no man who has ever stepped foot into a labour room with his partner would dare to say half the nonsense some of you are tweeting. But let’s set the record straight.
If you’re even a little curious or smart, you could do a quick Google search for the most painful experiences a human can go through. Childbirth consistently ranks in the top five. Yet some of you minimize it, ridicule the process, and try to score cheap points by calling it “painless.”
Is childbirth a death sentence? No. But can someone walk into that room and not come out? Absolutely. Mothers die. Babies die. Complications happen all the time. And for many women, the trauma lingers long after the delivery.
So if you don’t understand it, respect it. And if you can’t respect it, at the very least, stay quiet
When a woman stops asking who you’re with, who’s calling you late at night, or where you’ve been… it’s not peace, it’s detachment. She has mentally checked out.
A woman who is truly in love with you will care deeply about your actions, especially the intimate ones.
But when she no longer flinches at the thought of you sleeping with someone else, understand this clearly: she’s no longer emotionally invested.
To her, the relationship is now open. You think you’ve gained “freedom” to roam, sleep around, flirt, live wild, but what you really lost is something far deeper: her respect, her loyalty, and her heart.
And while you’re out there bragging about your new “freedom,” don’t forget: she might be doing the exact same thing you are, or even worse, and you wouldn’t know, because you both silently agreed to stop caring.
So don’t mistake silence for approval. Sometimes silence is just the sound of someone who’s done trying.
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When you finally understand that someone’s behavior reflects their internal struggles more than anything to do with you, you begin to learn grace, and naturally, detachment too.
Having an emotionally mature partner is Top Tier. you're able to express yourself freely and openly. they never insult you, they never give you the silent treatment, they never become aggressive or manipulative. they listen, they respond — they patiently hold a safe space for you
The person you choose to be your partner affects everything in your life, your mental health, your peace of mind, the love inside you, your happiness, how you get through difficulties, your success, how your children will be raised, and so much more. choose very wisely