if you’ve never experienced the rush of getting a good grade on an essay you wrote yourself about a book you never actually read then you haven’t lived
You gotta kill that fear of being seen because visibility is your birthright, people need to know you. In fact, think of showing up as putting out little signals that help your people find you. You’re not showing up for everybody, you’re showing up for your people.
I want to take public speaking classes and not because I’m nervous/afraid to speak in front of an audience but I want to learn how to organize my thoughts better when speaking. my adhd always has my mind so jumbled and it’s reflected in my speech sometimes :(
there’s something so attractive about someone who naturally takes the lead without making everything sexual. “come with me.” “eat first.” “give me your hand.” “we’re going here.” “go to sleep, you’re tired.” like??? why does being gently bossed around feel so intimate
I can’t get over how oblivious people are to gender programming.
“Girls are born that way”
You mean after the gender reveal color was pink, after the nursery was painted pink with pictures of princesses before her birth, after you used bows to adorn her 3 strands of hair ?