I wish everyone labeling me a "top spender" would actually chip in and fund my attendance at these events.
I've attended fan meetings and concerts, sure. But I've never even participated in any top-spender events. It's funny how eager some people are to throw around the label whenever they want to discredit someone, regardless of whether it even fits.
Calling me a "top spender" is just a convenient way to avoid engaging with the argument itself.
I've never said that spending less money makes someone less of a fan. But if you haven't made any meaningful contribution to an artist's career, you don't get to lecture those who have.
Stop hiding behind "equality" to justify your desire for authority—the authority to judge, police, and control other fans while contributing nothing yourself.
At that point, your only real activity in the fandom is policing other people online so you can feel morally superior.
Is that really the only support you have to offer an artist?
One thing I’ve noticed is that when some people run out of actual points and have limited vocabulary, they resort to insults, cussing, and anger instead of presenting a valid argument.
I want to say that, both in life and at work, dealing with overly emotional people is not a good thing. It can be exhausting for everyone around them. Dunk is emotionally stable, and he is good at tolerating and accommodating people like that, but that doesn't mean he should be expected to do so forever.
If someone is struggling, being neglected, or getting hurt, our focus shouldn't be on whether we've found something sweet to ship or romanticize. That's why I've never been able to fit into fujoshi culture. I feel that many of them show very little genuine concern for the people themselves.