I went to Greece. No fast food restaurants and liquor stores on every corner. A beer was $1. All the food I ate was freshly caught. Everybody was in shape, from the young to the old.
I thought to myself, America is trying to kill us.
dating someone who understands your mental health is so important. there are people who will make you feel terrible for things you can't or don't know how to control yet.
august will be filled with abundance.
august will be filled with happiness.
august will be filled with positivity.
august will be filled with peace.
august will be filled with love.
august will be filled with opportunities.
august will be filled with money.
Dudes be like “she know what it is” nah cause some people don’t and you’d be mad when y’all not on the same page. I don’t care how locked in y’all are. Verbally asking that lady to be your girlfriend hold a lot of weight
as i grew older, i learned that the key to surviving the day is not positivity, it’s acceptance. accepting that not all days are good and happy, you will have bad days, you make mistakes, you fail, you mess up, everything’s not gonna fall into place and that’s okay.
no one will ever realize how appreciative i am of the little things since they believe i’m high maintenance. remembering what i’ve said, asking how i’m doing, sending me pictures, calls, hugs, handwritten messages, surprise visits, eating together, or just being in the company
I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this only thinking about others
Narcissists do not have the ability to self reflect. They cannot see anything wrong with what they do and they only see fault in your reaction. They believe every argument is caused by you, because to them, there was no problem with their actions until you reacted to them.
travel more. take more pics. spend more time with family. take days off. treat yourself to nice things. appreciate the little things. this life is too short.
we sit on our phones and scroll, and scroll, and scroll, and scroll for countless hours... romanticizing/fantasizing/admiring/obsessing/envying/entertaining and interacting w complete strangers and their lives... it's always been a crazy concept to grasp for me