JoyO

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@seledka_vodka @Farida_N @KemiBadenoch History in some schools have been pulled off, most kids don’t even know anything.

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@shavnyuyngah Same thing I said about how Africans participated. But we want to keep talking about the westerners when we also participated. Until today, Africans are still enslave in their own country by same Africans leading them,

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@Drzoeoluwatoyin I agree with staying off, married pple shud know boundaries. Once you are married all exs becomes an acquaintance. Pple don’t burn bridges, but know boundaries. It’s called respect.

[CraiginEngland @ghost_wales]

Well said Kemi.
Something that’s often overlooked as well is the heavy price paid in lives of Royal Navy sailors who died fighting to end the slave trade not to mention white Europeans were also taken from their lands to be sold into slavery.
One final point I’d like to make though and the more pertinent one is the fact that today in 2026 it’s estimated that over 50 million people around the world live as slaves today no one seems to care about that though.

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@OkaPhusisa @Farida_N @shumbamutasa And to add, up till today Africans are still enslaved not by westerner but their same pple. Who was capturing and selling? Our pple, when they said stop, were d willing? No.

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@Drzoeoluwatoyin @Onomz_D1 @ScenesMult59511 Some marriages are husband and maid. The partnership in marriage had shifted in some homes due to the mindset and cultural environment in which marriage is instituted except for few who has taken time to understand what scriptural marriage means.

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@Jomilojju When pple dismiss the experience of pregnancy becos she had her own swiftly or a man referring to grandparents that had 6 is only a very vile soul. Som pple became diabetic or hypertensive afta childbirth and lots of others dt d r managing life with.

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@realbig_shak It’s disheartening that some Nigerians take advantage of someone’s death for their own benefits for popularity, clicks and likes, monetary gains that’s far from true interest. It’s time pple start writing down stern warnings incase of anything. It’s now becoming a trend.

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@sapphire_nifemi You know we are living among pple that has disruption with their neurotransmitter- logical thinking is hard. Don’t stress for them, a long way to go.

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@SolaTheAnalyst Listening to different pple, d really wanted Chow back

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@DoraAd10 But can you have some empathy and desist from forming opinion. Have you ever been in this kind of situation before? A little empathy would do.

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@Drzoeoluwatoyin @Nanyo_sae I completely agree with you. It’s easier for people to form opinion. Nobody cares about the trauma the family is going through especially impacting the kids. I wished SM pple can just let this be and stop propagating stories for their gains and click. Very demonic behavior.

[Zoe oluwatoyin Adeola @Drzoeoluwatoyin]

It is definitely very easy for you to talk like this because you are not the person in that situation, and I don't pray for you to ever find yourself in such a situation.

A young married woman who has just lost her husband is in a different situation from someone who has been married for 15 years or more. Their mindsets and the ways they are likely to handle such situations are different.

The honest truth is that it will be emotionally and mentally traumatic for this woman to see the grave of her husband consistently within the same house. It can also affect the children because they are still very young and may find it difficult to cope with the constant reminder of their father's death.

Honestly, issues like this should not even escalate in the first place, if not for social media influencers who are trying to make money from content and end up creating unnecessary problems within families.

These are issues that family members can sit down, discuss, and resolve amicably by understanding one another's concerns and reaching a reasonable compromise.

Not every family issue needs to become a public controversy on social media. Sometimes, all that is needed is understanding, empathy, and the willingness to consider the emotional well-being of everyone involved.

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@Lushcryptos @UgochukwuCFR @gaiuschibueze 🤣🤣🤣

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@_Abenyy That’s life for you. Women needs to be smart. Not everything is emotions.

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@embee247 @itsjoyzita What that means is that the wife is working for a disbeliever or what? Why is the man in UK not in Saudi or Qatar?

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@ronkecarew It’s sad how pple use pple meticulously and then drop them. It’s just so sad.

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@shinadang @ronkecarew Maybe she just doesn’t know or probably can’t stand the shock from the drama

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@Lushcryptos @UgochukwuCFR @gaiuschibueze They don’t need to ban but apply diplomacy in engaging in way forward. I don’t even know the ambassador representing Nigeria in US

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@EricMoses_m @realbig_shak You see, Dokita illustrating. How female patient go open leg for medical examination give this one. Anyway, I no want enter anybody talk.