How fast I can detach. Anything I love extremely deeply I’m prepared to lose. It can break my heart but I have learned how to keep going. It can seem cold, but if it takes me off my pivot..I’ll cut my finger off to save my hand. I cant lose myself again, for anything. I’ll heal.
As an adult you can 100% control the peace in your adult life by maintaining a calm nervous system. Anything that throws it off slightly is a sign to get the fuck from round there. Listen!
PEOPLE BE HAVING NOTHING TO OFFER & i don't mean bread. I mean NO SUPPORT, no appreciation, no shoulder to cry on, remembering important things about you, no love, no respect for you, no valuing you, no attempts to build you up, no gestures, NOTHING.
I spent years overgiving in friendships & relationships. I was always the one checking in, showing love, making sure everybody was good & I forgot about me. Now I just want to be alone and focus on myself. I’m learning to pour into me the way I used to pour into everybody else.
I used to be big on addressing stuff because I felt like communication would fix things. But it's so draining now. Let people be who they are and move on.
The real flex is keeping a good heart when life keeps giving you reasons not to. When you been lied to, used, switched up on, and counted out... but you still show love. You still got loyalty in you. Still show up for people, even when nobody showed up for you. That's rare.
I really can’t believe women date men that are this stupid. There is no amount of money that could make me overlook this type of foolishness on top of him being ugly, fat, a baby dad & a cheater.