Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
You need to learn to stay away from people who make you mean, crazy or reactive. That's not you or who you want be. So if they bring that out of you, theyโve got to go.
I just came to the realization that I should just do everything alone ๐ญ movie dates,trips,dinner etc. I be so fixated on wanting to do things with others I slow myself down and never end up doing things and wasting my time, energy & money.
Dear Diary..
Two things I'm NOT doing.. Teaching no friend to be a friend.. & teaching a man to be a man. If it ain't in you by now, it never will be in you!
i love a man that genuinely fw me all day, everyday checking in, calling, texting, face time, pulling up...i can handle my own, but it's something special about a man who makes you feel wanted & thought about โก
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. The one who sees your heart without judgement. The one who holds your dreams with care.
if love ever finds me again, may the universe let me meet someone who loves me as deep as i do. Someone who is never okay with hurting me. Someone who is loyal, kind & devoted. Someone who will never make me feel unwanted, someone who feels like home & also finds home in me.
PLEASEEEE date a man who believes in romance and a provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you, and honouring your heart in every way he can... YOU DESERVE ALL THAT