when it comes to stagnancy sometimes you just need to make a move. even if it’s the wrong one, you start needing to just do SOMETHING. you can reverse a lot of bad choices in your life, but you cannot reverse life itself. ensure that you live one
your relationship with discipline changes so much when you shift from doing things from love rather than shame. from 'i have to clean'- to realizing i deserve to have a clean home. from 'i need to work out'- to i deserve to have a healthy body. you deserve the best from yourself
One thing about adulthood that way too many people learn way too late (and have no choice but to learn the hard way): you have to be deliberate/proactive about everything. For the first time in your life, you can't be passive participant in anything.