@Chizitere_xyz Emeka married the wrong woman
Infact he married Jezebel. Emekas out there, look before you leap. If I earn 1m and my husband earns 100k, if he gives me 50k, the home will lavk nothing. We will have everything as if it's my husband providing. I value his 50k.
“If you are rich, you will enjoy Nigeria”.
This is one of the most fundamentally foolish things to ever say and believe in the history of foolish things in the world.
Today our very own world boxing champion Anthony Joshua had a ghastly motor crash that killed two people.
No ambulance.
No paramedics.
No first aid service.
No emergency response.
Just a confused crowd at an accident site.
Recently there was a fire outbreak in a building in Lagos with many people trapped in it.
For many hours,
No ambulance, no fire service,
No first aid service, no emergency response. Again, just another confused crowd outside the building while people burnt to death inside.
Terrible incidents like the terrible car accident that just happened to Anthony Joshua and the complete utter lack of a coordinated emergency response is another stark reminder of what a poor, backward and undeveloped country we are.
Two people died in that same car accident that Anthony Joshua was involved in. If AJ also needed emergency medical attention, he could have died. Quite simply so.
His money wouldn’t matter.
His fame wouldn’t matter.
His global renown wouldn’t matter.
He could have simply died today.
Today’s crash should be a cold brutal awakening to every one of us. Your money is absolutely meaningless in a failed country that has no working healthcare systems and no working institutions.
It does not matter if you are rich or poor. In many life threatening emergency medical situations, your money will end up being very useless. This is again a cold stark reminder to everyone who thinks that wealth is somehow always a sure shield against failed systems in a failed country.
AJ could have died today.
Just because he had an accident in a country that has zero first aid, zero emergency medical response, zero timely ambulance and zero paramedics when your life is hanging in the balance.
A country where human life has zero value.
The safest way to travel is by plane. Do you know why?
Because they crash.
A few months ago, I learned a concept called Black Box Thinking which is a system that defines how entire industries respond to failure.
In aviation, when a plane crashes, they don't just look for who to blame.
They find a device called a Black Box, retrieve the data, and then ask what went wrong with the system.
And there is a reason for this.
To explain this, there is a famous story of a crash involving an Asian airline years ago.
When investigators listened to the recording from the black box, they found the engine didn't just fail on its own, the junior pilot actually noticed a mistake.
But because of a cultural hierarchy in Asia that demanded absolute respect for elders, he didn't question his senior pilot.
Instead, he hinted and spoke softly and the plane crashed.
That tragedy changed aviation safety forever.
It moved the focus from "Who made the mistake?" to "Why did the system allow this mistake?"
As we stand on the 29th of December, looking back at 2025, I want you to adopt this strategy of Black Box Thinking.
Most of us look at our failures this year and feel shame.
We hide the crash, and blame the economy, government, or something that does not exist.
But Black Box thinking demands a harder question: "How did I contribute to this problem?"
Did I stay silent when I should have spoken up?
Did I rely on motivation instead of a system?
Did I ignore the data because of my ego?
Don't bury your failures of 2025.
Open the box and analyze it.
Because that is the only way to fly safer in 2026.