Her explaining to him, as if he is denying anything is frying. “Sincere is off of her so it would have just been you pulling her…you see?”…… okay???? And! Didn’t you say “you’re okay with him exploring Sol”??? 😭😭😭 but ladies and gents she is not ok
My man said something to me that really stuck.
He told me, “I’m not actually here to control you. I’m not your dad, I’m your partner. You’re free to make your own choices. Just understand that every choice has consequences. If you choose something that damages what we’ve built, that’s on you.”
He said, “I’ll always tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s what healthy communication looks like. But if you keep stepping over the line after I’ve shown you where it is, then you were never really protecting us to begin with.”
And honestly, that’s what accountability in a relationship sounds like.