Train a child the right way, and when they grow up, they will not depart from it.
It takes a child who was raised well to raise their own children well.
The cycle of good parenting begins at home.
Young men looking for a wife to marry, let me teach you how to do a bit of filtering from a woman’s perspective;
1. She bills you first or second week of talking, BLOCK
2. She has no job or business, BLOCK
3. You ask her on a date and she wants you to buy her a dress or pay for her hair, BLOCK
4. You ask her, “so where do you see yourself in the next 1yr” and she replies with “I don’t know o,” BLOCK
5. Her money is her money, your money is our money, BLOCK
6. Always buying new expensive things without a clear source of income, BLOCK
7. You buy her a gift on her birthday but you didn’t get a gift on yours? BLOCK
8. Always asking you for money, BLOCK
9. Only you do the calling, she doesn’t call you, BLOCK
10. She doesn’t want kids, BLOCK.
Never let money take the front seat in your approach to her.
If money can buy her affection, someone richer will take her away from you.
Be generous, not a simp.
A woman liking you is one of the easiest things to tell.
A woman ready for marriage is the second easiest thing to tell.
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@ayam_Chizzy Everyone responds to heart break or failed relationships the same way. But we must learn to forgive and have mercy on ourselves and not get stuck in the rut. Move on... You will be better with a company.
@hy_wemmy I think the conversation should go both ways.
Only a few men are ever ready to get head on into marriage. Most men require a gentle push from their partner. The fear of marriage is the beginning of wisdom for many.