@kenkenlewu God abeg oo but why would her husband tell not to go when she obviously wants to be there by all means..as if a woman stop been her own person because of the tag wife..I hope the same is for the husband,if she don't want he will also stay
Someone was raped and murdered in her home and a grown ass man is saying if she cooperated and didn’t put up a resistance, they would have spared her life. A dead dog is better than some of you.
I have made up my mind never to say anything cos I see her as daughter and I hope everyone remembers this whole thing started on Twitter while I paid for her machine, she was paid 500k for Malaika for an upcoming, nobody will pay such I beat my chest that I’m among those that will pay such, I won’t say anything may God bless everyone of us🙏🙏pls Alakada Genz will start showing on Tuesday 21st April on Toyin Abraham tv on YouTube by 3pm💪💪💃🏻
I have made up my mind never to say anything cos I see her as daughter and I hope everyone remembers this whole thing started on Twitter while I paid for her machine, she was paid 500k for Malaika for an upcoming, nobody will pay such I beat my chest that I’m among those that will pay such, I won’t say anything may God bless everyone of us🙏🙏pls Alakada Genz will start showing on Tuesday 21st April on Toyin Abraham tv on YouTube by 3pm💪💪💃🏻
I have tried to ignore this trend. But my people keep tagging me to it. Let me just say a few things since they want to know why.
First and foremost, shaving off the hair of a new born is rooted in our religion. And we practice it because we believe the Creator knows the best way to start a life.
Once you accept that, then the logic and wisdom behind it fall into place. Shaving the head on the seventh day is a total reset for the child. The prophet (peace be upon him) said:
أَمِيطُوا عَنْهُ الأَذَى
which means "Remove from him the harm." That word “Aza” is what people translate as dirt, but it means so much more. It refers to anything that is a burden, an uncleanness, or a lingering weight.
When people say that first hair is dirt, what they mean is that the hair it is soaked in womb fluids and birth oils for nine months. It is residue from a life that is finished.
So, removing it is a physical and spiritual transition that lets the child start with a clean slate. It is like washing away the remnants of the past so the child can be fully present in this world.
Apart from that, there are health benefits to it. A quick research I made revealed to me that the birth hair is usually vellus hair, which is thin and temporary. It often traps old skin and cradle cap that can make the scalp uncomfortable for the baby. Leaving it means the permanent hair has to fight through all that old buildup to grow.
So when they tell you to shave the hair of a new born, it is like clearing a field before you plant new seeds. You remove the old grass so the new crop has the best chance to be strong. It’s a wisdom that says choose the long term health of the scalp over the short term vanity of birth curls. As you can see the mum is so amazed of the baby’s hair curls.
Again the Prophet (peace be upon him) was said to weigh the hair and give its value in silver to the poor. The lesson here is in the value and charity that starts before the child can even speak. It teaches the parents to see their child as a gift to the community and it anchors the child in a system of gratitude.
It shows that even the smallest part of a person has a worth that can be used to help someone else. So when someone mocks the tradition, they are only looking at the surface level.
As Muslims, we are looking at a purification process that sets the whole life in order. It is about the wisdom of the collective and the discipline of our faith.
As a concluding statement, we care more about the roots than the leaves.
Allah knows best.
I have tried to ignore this trend. But my people keep tagging me to it. Let me just say a few things since they want to know why.
First and foremost, shaving off the hair of a new born is rooted in our religion. And we practice it because we believe the Creator knows the best way to start a life.
Once you accept that, then the logic and wisdom behind it fall into place. Shaving the head on the seventh day is a total reset for the child. The prophet (peace be upon him) said:
أَمِيطُوا عَنْهُ الأَذَى
which means "Remove from him the harm." That word “Aza” is what people translate as dirt, but it means so much more. It refers to anything that is a burden, an uncleanness, or a lingering weight.
When people say that first hair is dirt, what they mean is that the hair it is soaked in womb fluids and birth oils for nine months. It is residue from a life that is finished.
So, removing it is a physical and spiritual transition that lets the child start with a clean slate. It is like washing away the remnants of the past so the child can be fully present in this world.
Apart from that, there are health benefits to it. A quick research I made revealed to me that the birth hair is usually vellus hair, which is thin and temporary. It often traps old skin and cradle cap that can make the scalp uncomfortable for the baby. Leaving it means the permanent hair has to fight through all that old buildup to grow.
So when they tell you to shave the hair of a new born, it is like clearing a field before you plant new seeds. You remove the old grass so the new crop has the best chance to be strong. It’s a wisdom that says choose the long term health of the scalp over the short term vanity of birth curls. As you can see the mum is so amazed of the baby’s hair curls.
Again the Prophet (peace be upon him) was said to weigh the hair and give its value in silver to the poor. The lesson here is in the value and charity that starts before the child can even speak. It teaches the parents to see their child as a gift to the community and it anchors the child in a system of gratitude.
It shows that even the smallest part of a person has a worth that can be used to help someone else. So when someone mocks the tradition, they are only looking at the surface level.
As Muslims, we are looking at a purification process that sets the whole life in order. It is about the wisdom of the collective and the discipline of our faith.
As a concluding statement, we care more about the roots than the leaves.
Allah knows best.
Doctors these days are moving mad af.
So a lady gave birth to twins in a hospital around here and guess what?
The doctor sold one of the twins for 10m. How?
The mother and father they were expecting twins normal cause they checked scan already, now after giving birth she saw the twins herself and she was sedated by the doctor.
lo and behold when she woke up doctor begin yarn say na only one she born o. It’s one thing to be a fraud doctor and it’s another thing be a dumb doctor 😄
Mama no gree, she raised alarm saying she saw her babies herself so why is she being told she gave birth to one
Long story short, arguments here and there doctor sha finally admitted to selling one to some rich people like that and out of pressure he refunded the money to them and asked them to bring the baby back.
Its been more than 3hrs and he couldn’t reach those people anymore. Money refunded, baby not returned, police have packed everybody.
Hopefully i get the full gist of what happens next
I remember someone that said scan showed two and she gave birth to one. it is not possible at all,if scan says it two then it's two..I am happy the mother is fighting for her lost child and it better than the one that actually believed she had one
Doctors these days are moving mad af.
So a lady gave birth to twins in a hospital around here and guess what?
The doctor sold one of the twins for 10m. How?
The mother and father they were expecting twins normal cause they checked scan already, now after giving birth she saw the twins herself and she was sedated by the doctor.
lo and behold when she woke up doctor begin yarn say na only one she born o. It’s one thing to be a fraud doctor and it’s another thing be a dumb doctor 😄
Mama no gree, she raised alarm saying she saw her babies herself so why is she being told she gave birth to one
Long story short, arguments here and there doctor sha finally admitted to selling one to some rich people like that and out of pressure he refunded the money to them and asked them to bring the baby back.
Its been more than 3hrs and he couldn’t reach those people anymore. Money refunded, baby not returned, police have packed everybody.
Hopefully i get the full gist of what happens next
🚨🚨 A doctor in a government hospital almost gave my 5-month-old baby the WRONG medication today 🤦🏽♀️💔
I took my 5-month-old baby to the hospital this morning after she ran a high fever all night and couldn’t sleep .
We just moved to a new area, so I decided to register for a family card at a nearby general hospital—for immunizations and minor health emergencies.
After registration, my baby’s vitals were checked.
1 hour later ⏳, I was called in to see the doctor.
One doctor was attending to over 20 patients—mostly babies and children, with a few adults.
I explained everything, and he suggested a CBC test for my baby.
Results came out: infection.
Apparently from putting her hands in her mouth.
Meanwhile, I had been giving her Bonababe all this while, thinking it was just teething 🤦🏽♀️
I took the results back to the doctor and he prescribed:
Loratadine syrup + Meroclau suspension.
I went to the pharmacy to get the drugs… and that’s where things got scary 😳
The pharmacist looked at the prescription, paused, then asked:
“Madam, how old is your baby?”
I said, “5 months.”
She immediately said, “No naw, please come with me.”
We both went back to the doctor.
She told him straight:
“Doctor, Loratadine is NOT supposed to be prescribed for a 5-month-old baby.”
The doctor looked her in the face and asked:
“Why?” 😐
At that point, I was already uncomfortable.
The pharmacist, clearly irritated, said:
“We’ve been instructed by the former doctor not to give it to babies below 1 year. Please prescribe Piriton instead.”
This doctor was STILL arguing:
“But why? What’s his reason for saying that?” 🤦🏽♀️
Omo… 😩
Eventually, he reluctantly tore the first prescription and wrote:
Piriton syrup (2.5ml for 5 days) + Meroclau suspension (2.5ml, twice daily for 7 days).
Meanwhile, the pharmacist and even the nurse were already exchanging looks like:
“This one no too sabi wetin him dey do.” 😒
As a mother, I felt it instantly—that fear 😭💔
Because how do you confidently prescribe the WRONG medication for a 5-month-old baby… and still be arguing when corrected? 😡
I didn’t even argue.
I left that hospital immediately and went back to my former hospital, Mother & Child, to reconfirm everything.
Because ego + inexperience is a dangerous combination ⚠️
Government hospitals need to do better.
How do you leave babies and children in the hands of an inexperienced doctor without proper supervision? 🤷🏽♀️
These are people’s children we’re talking about 💔
Or is it until something irreversible happens before we start taking