Rejected a man because he seemed too boring. Now he's married, owns a house, and goes to bed before 10 while l'm emotionally attached to a situationship that replies every 3-5 business days.
I rly think as much as things look confusing, things are shifting so people are ending up right where they're supposed to be.
I hope someone who needs to reads this knows this.
Keep standing in your truth.
they call me blunt. i call it keeping it real. i skip the “how are you” because i can see you’re tired. i don’t pretend stuff makes sense when it doesn’t. i don’t smile and nod just to keep the peace. my brain stopped doing free customer service for everyone. what’s left is me, no script. turns out the “problem” was me finally saying what i actually see.
people really act like hurting someone you love is some rare thing only bad people do.
you can hurt people through neglect, avoidance, poor communication, selfishness, broken promises, taking them for granted, or simply not realizing the impact of your actions. human relationships are in fact complicated.