When girls want to sleep w/ you it’s beyond noticeable. If you have to chase, then it’s not what she initially wanted, but a required taste.
You’re either physically attractive, emotionally stable, or financially well off.
Stay in touch w/ reality, no matter how hard it gets, because whatever fantasy or “escape” you assume will save you, will later eventually be your demise.
Woman will be like “But she’s not even prettier than me”, perhaps not, & that’s far from the point, because she’s a better person & who I actually envision a future with.
But really I can care less about any of that. If she’s average looking, has a normal job, & comes from humble beginnings that’s fine.
Seeking a wife, whom I’d eventually raise a family with. Someone who can make a house a home, loves to adventure, & understands life.
Some ppl date for status & opportunity; making it a point to date the most attractive, successful, or well connected person. To each is own, but also comes w/ a price, better fit the bill.
Dating in the US isn’t for the weak, honestly, it needs a hard reset.
If you’ve dated someone not from here, then probably realized we have such a lack of passion for life, lack personal peace, let our egos override, & allowed money to dictate overall quality of life.
Ppl get into a lot of bullsh*t because they don’t know when to go home, have too many ppl around, & focused on matters of real importance.
Life is hard enough as it is, so it’s easier sticking to one loving partner, few good friends, & avoiding any sign of trouble like a plague.
Sometimes you’ll get overlooked from not doing the most, or by being genuine & authentic, please don’t take it as a sign to join the circus.
Simply take note, demand what’s deserved, & let ‘em live in their preferred world of delusion.
I’m not what I look like, but I am what I look like at the same time.
I don’t even know how to explain this sh*t.
But if you’ve embraced duality, then you understand.
Being “Real” for the sake of is a f*cking myth, nobody cares, & you’ll learn that the hard way.
From friends, girlfriends, to family, I’ve learned it’s literally more lucrative & better to be real w/ yourself, & just pay attention to the bullsh*t ppl to tell themselves.
Not every connection is meant to be long term, most will be short lived, but those moments can be a staple in time, to help heal or positively pivot your life in direction.
Obviously, choose who you spend time w/ wisely, but don't create an impossible pedestal either.
Not every connection is meant to be long term, most will be short lived, but those moments can be a staple in time, to help heal or positively pivot your life in a direction.
Obviously, choose who you spend time w/ wisely, but don’t create an impossible pedestal either.
Most ppl we come across aren’t long term relationship worthy; humans just crave passion, companionship, & overall sex which is okay, but don’t be naive.
Too many of us expect more out ppl than what they can actually offer.
Sometimes a good time is just a good time, & we fool ourselves into believing more, let it be & enjoy the moment, or stay home.
Probably the first & last time I’ll say this publicly, but if your perception of reality solely stems from a government institution or friends/family who don’t have the sort of peaceful & prosperous life you desire, then you’re a naïve puppet.
Do better or pay the price.
It’s about a lifestyle, at least for me; which blends everything from fashion, music, sex, architecture, history, science, etc.
Lived long enough to know you don’t have to be one thing, a lot of WHAT/HOW we’re taught depletes the human spirit, & dying for a just cause is noble.
“Can’t turn a hoe into a housewife.”
True, but to a degree, because some mommas definitely weren’t practicing celibacy or abstinence to say the least, sh*t how do you think you came in the picture?