incase you weren't raised correctly, i think it’s a mans job to set the tone in a relationship; whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. she takes what he gives and reflects it. when a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, it creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. vice versa, when he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. she becomes guarded, unsure, and emotionally exhausted.
My therapist told me no one tells anyone how hard it is to rewire your brain to allow good things to happen after experiencing so much trauma or pain. Blessings exist, good people exist & a softer life exists. Let it happen.
i love a man that’s into me. like can’t keep his hands off me, can’t wait to talk to me, wants to take me places, buy me gifts, kiss on me, cuddle, plan dates, and do crazy fun spontaneous shit