I don’t think it’s useful to say you’re Black first or a woman first because you are always both at the same time and having both identities always shapes how you’re perceived and treated
@meowsalot05 My cousins didn’t even know she doesn’t talk to us until yesterday. It’s definitely her choice not to speak to us. She sends them money and gifts. I wouldn’t ask her for a candy from the dollar tree. I still love her, but there’s nothing there relationship-wise.
i’m very contempt with the fact that one of my aunts (mom sister) doesn’t really care for me as much as she does my cousins, and people are acting like i should still want to build a relationship with her 😭
The times I was hospitalized as a child (5), I don’t remember her calling or coming down to see if I was fine. Happy birthday wishes I never got. Saw her at a family reunion. She stared at me and said nothing, etc. I wish ppl would let me love her from a distance..🧍🏾♀️🧍🏾♀️
I get what some of y’all are saying. But at the end of the day, it is my choice to wait, and I do know him better. So I decided on what I felt was better, and what I was comfortable with :) thank you for the advice too and kind words !! ❤️😭
I get what some of y’all are saying. But at the end of the day, it is my choice to wait, and I do know him better. So I decided on what I felt was better, and what I was comfortable with :) thank you for the advice too and kind words !! ❤️😭
@_usr_notfnd i’m not hanging on necessarily, i’m just not gonna ruin his bday. i got broken up with before my birthday and it sucks. i really don’t have bad blood with him, it’s really just time for me to prioritize myself. 🤷🏾♀️
@Therealkimaniii we don’t even talk enough/see eachother for me to play in his face ?? if he wanted to salvage our relationship he woulda did something when i asked about 17 times but i dont have to deal with that. im sorry 😭
@Therealkimaniii Girl, why would I break up with a nigga right before birthday ? + I’ve given him multiple opportunities to salvage our relationship, but he legit won’t try. I still have feelings for him, but it’s not fair for me to put my own feelings aside.
@darealcbreezy_ There’s really no bad blood between us. I’ve tried to give him grace because of his mental health, but putting his feelings over mine is not helping either of us. 😭 It’s annoying because I still like him. I just can’t put him over me 🌚