If you can’t make the effort to be intentional with someone and plan outings and spend intentional time with them then just leave them be. No grown woman wants to text all day or see you out doing stuff but never plan for them.
I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy ! I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode ! My nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood & now I’m choosing peace, softness & stability !
Unfortunately, I am a girl who takes words to heart ! So yes, I remember every little thing you said & it stuck with me, whether it was good or bad !
She used to tolerate a lot because she didn't want to lose people. Now she established her boundaries because she doesn't want to lose herself anymore.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script & make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" felt this to the core.
You promised yourself you was going to move different this year. Don’t forget that. Don’t let old habits, old situations, or old patterns pull you back into the same stuff you said you was done with. Stay locked in on what you said you wanted and stand on it.