There is nothing hard about comprehending that preferences can be rooted in prejudice.
“I would never date a fat person”
“I would never date a dark skinned person”
“I would never date a bisexual man”
None of these negate prejudice because you deem them as preferential.
I can't express how lucky I was to have spent my formative years with an internet that was shaped by >110 IQ nerds instead of third world content farms struggling over 5$ of ad revenue
I never understood “using” men solely for things like vacations/dinners/experiences because doing anything with a man I don’t like sounds like my person version of hell lmao
when I was like 19-22 I was like “I cannot BELIEVE I was reading smut at 11 that fucked me up in SO MANY WAYS IM SURE” but like as I get older I do think think that maybe it was actually a good way for me to explore my sexuality in a way that was not looking at people having sex
still mystified that progressives landed on "unhoused", which is basically synonymous with the term it replaced and still frames homelessness as a deficit, rather than "dehomed" or "dehoused" which invoke the active process by which we strip people of housing