I saw something on Tiktok that said, "Nobody isolates more than the oldest daughter who knows nobody is coming to save her". & Tbh immediately I teared up.
Then to add to it, I go to the comments and saw "isolation, extreme independence, the need to accomplish everything but never feeling like you've accomplished enough".
& That hit deep
Me and @mrbayoa1 has been discussing since early morning today and making decision to pick the best laptop 💻 for the street, laptop that can perform various task, like graphics designing, office works, students and all
We decide to go for this HP 840’G3 with touchscreen and keyboard light 💡 and he approved it
He @mrbayoa1 will pick 15 lucky individuals and we will deliver to their doorstep
HP EliteBook 840 G3
*Intel(R) Core(TM) i5 *CPU 2.4 GHz, up to 3 GHz with Intel Turbo Boost Technology *8GB MEMORY DDR4 PC4 *256GB Solid State Drive *windows 10 *Keyboard light *Touchscreen *Intel HD Graphics 520
*Audio by Bang & Olufsen *720p HD webcam
I can't even advise you to stop giving to your partner be ause that essentially mean you stop loving them. The pillars of relationship is empathy and sin ere kindnesses.
But I'll always blame you if you're in a relationship where you only give but don't receive. The solution to such is not to stop giving, but to end the relationship. Nobody who loves you will be okay with not giving to you. Absolutely nobody.
You've seen babe collect from a guy she doesn't love to give to the one she loves. It is simply because where your treasure is, that is where your heart is. The only proof of love is giving. It is not about volume but value. If you pay attention, you'll know how large or small their heart is. There is no such thingbas "I'll buy if he deserves." Throw them away. Those are frauds without love in their heart for you.
You accept the love you think you deserve. If you're with someone who only demands and feels entitled, it is your fault and your personal problem. To whoever is reading, be genuinely kind and intentional about the person you're dating.
We underestimate the number of people that have been through very traumatic relationships that left them damaged. That is one of the reasons the dating pool is a mess. Not tension many people are largely unkind and lack family values.
Some people are lucky, they finally find someone that treats them like a person, love them with all their heart and make them shine, and they were smart enough to open their heart to receive it.
You can't even love some people again because they can't trust your love without questioning the motive. Some are so damaged they think beating and verbal abuse are normal. A lady left a physically abusive relationship for an emotionally abusive one and it took her 4 years to know she was being abused because all the while, she was just thankful that "at least he isn't beating me."
Most people are going through a lot and it takes a lot for some people to finally open their heart. But life is unscripted, no matter how damaged you are, you can still be shown shege if you commit to nonsense.
Please love with empathy and sincere kindness. Your partner is an extension of you. If they can't receive your love and love you right, remove yourself from such position. Hurt people, hurt people. Don't let them destroy you.
We'll b cleaning our channel again soon to remuv inactive persons.
Active users, continue engaging....
Who'd win our 1million naira Giveaway??? "nobody can knows...."