Certified Social Media Marketer & Communications Strategist; content creator, graphics designer. I'm friendly and approachable until irked. God’s Favorite girl.
I'll give married guys some free advice...
Chase your wife around the house. You turn something on in her. You guys become children for just that 4 minutes running around. 😉
Lift her off the ground. It says something to her mind. 😉
But if you want to keep the spark alive in the middle of a busy life, add these to the list:
Take over the dinner chaos. When she is staring down the pot trying to figure out how to feed everyone, stepping in and saying, "I've got this," or just ordering the Friday night pizza or food so she doesn't have to cook, speaks directly to her soul.
Handle the unsexy logistics.
Give her the gift of absolute silence. Sometimes taking the kids out of the house for two hours so she can just exist in a quiet room without anyone needing anything from her.
Flirt with her during the ordinary moments. A wink across the room while you are both cleaning up the kitchen reminds her that underneath the heavy titles of "Mom" and "Dad," you are still just two people crazy about each other.
Notice the invisible labor. Thank her for remembering the scheduling, the grocery, and all the behind the scenes magic that keeps the house running. It bridges the gap and silently says, "I see exactly how hard you work for us."
The movie romance is great, but the trenches of everyday life are where the real connection happens.
Show up for her there.
@MasinElije She actually said it on live with Amaya that her daughter is out of town, and she’s gonna go see her as soon as she arrives. It would have been for naught if she went home to an empty house.
@MasinElije@TheNikkiRosa She actually said it on live with Amaya that her daughter is out of town, and she’s gonna go see her as soon as she arrives,. It would have been for naught if she went home to an empty house.
My biggest cheerleader. He clapped so hard for me that I didn’t even notice if others weren’t. He gave so much love, I never needed any other validation.
My biggest regret is that he passed bfor I could spoil him the way I wanted to, bfor I could give the life he truly deserved.
One day, I was coming back from work or an event that went late, and on my way back, it started raining heavily. Rained hat beaten the hell out of me and I was so tired with the things I was carrying, including my laptop. My entire area was flooded, and bikes weren’t going into
moments I’ll never forget.🖤
I have so many memories like that with my dad. So now, when the grief of losing him becomes too much to bear, I think about those memories.
He was my gist partner, the first person I told anything to before making any life-changing decisions.💔