You young men lack growth mindset.
When I married my lovely wife, I was earning <200k.
I had friends that were earning above that, & they felt they weren't earning enough to marry.
Today, they're married. My kids are older than theirs.
And they're not earning more than me.
Asides cheating, another thing you will do, that your husband will extremely frown at, is begging for money from men.
Whether you've anything sexual with them/not.
Including from your brothers.
Before you do that, you must seek his consent, or he'll suggest it to you.
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Go and ask your father if your mother was disturbing or begging him for hair money, when they were dating.
And see what your father will tell you.
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@jon_d_doe "I know that I shouldn't be doing this"
Then why are you doing it?
You lose your dignity and beauty in the sight of a man, the moment you beg him for money.
The next thing that will come to his mind is..
"is this how she goes about begging men for money?"
Before my father died, he shared his lands to me & my brothers.
The one that he built & lived in, until his death, remains the family house.
But he also said that it belongs to our first son.
He gave one large one to me & my younger brother.
That I should just raise a fence to cover the entire land, & put one gate.
And that I was wasting money.
My response to him:
The money that you think I am wasting now, is the money that I am saving from spending to call you, and the villagers, to come mediate between my
When a family knows that their son is a good husband material & would be a good father, they'll protective of him, & scrutinize the women in his life.
Not throwing "incentives" at you, so that you will get married to him.
But your ojú kòkòrò will not let you be great.
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@jon_d_doe Some of you ignorant or inexperienced people, do not understand what family dynamics means, & why a man must be 5 steps ahead and protect his shield too.
You just come here to spew gibberish from your gutter senses.
@jon_d_doe Polygamy is not destrusctive, only if you can love all your children, & treat your wives equally.
I choose monogamy because I know I cannot treat two or more women equally.
But I can love all my children equally.
One wife is enough "headache".
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@jon_d_doe When it comes to building an organic page, writing original contents that is not plagiarized, & building a brand without being known.
I am amongst the very few.
Say whatever you like, I've giving value to everyone that has come across my teachings.
Including my enemies.
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@jon_d_doe If you're over 70 years old, & you're a president of a country.
You should fear no one, except God.
You must do the right thing, & damn the consequences.
Except you don't believe in God, & your legacy.
Being a criminal at over 70, shows that you're failure.
Good night again.
@jon_d_doe Women don't love men.
But that doesn't mean that if your woman says...
"I love you darling"
Then you'll not respond by saying...
"I love you too my baby"
Just know, & recognize why she's saying it.
It's either you have given her money, good sex or she misses sex.
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Even if you learn nothing else from me, please learn this.
Legitimate ways of living is the best legacy that you can bequeath to your children.
Even if you die poor trying.
You can forget me and everything that I stand for.
But never forget this one.
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I saw a video where an Igbo business man "settled" 5 of his apprentices.
N20m each for 2.
N21m for 1.
N22m for 1
N23m for the last.
I am not sure of the no of yrs they served him, but in those years, he most likely fed & clothe them.
This is how the Igbos spread wealth.
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@jon_d_doe There is no woman that you would date or marry, that will not manipulate you.
The good ones will do it in a healthy way.
The bad ones will do it in destructive way.
Relationship is a game.
And the smartest persons will win.
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Even olosho.
You'll rise an olosho.
Take her to the club, buy her drinks and food.
Make her very comfortable.
Then after knacks, she'll still expect you to pay her in full.
She'll not remember to give you discount for all the monies you spent on her in the club.
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If you meet a man when he's supposed to be busy chasing his career & building his future, & he's always the one reaching out to you.
He's not serious with his life.
A serious minded man thinks more about his financial stability than he thinks about his emotional stability.
A lot of men are so unkind to oloshos.
Na oloshos deflower most men ooo.
One olosho fit don deflower 100 men.
And the men go dey feel like don.
Na olosho teach most mean how to wear condom sef.
All hail oloshos!
Una go soon shine.
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