I get the angle she is coming from, but there is no way you want to use your marriage for podcast that you won't embarrass your partner. Despite her best effort, it comes off disrespectful.
Having said that, parenting is a huge responsibility. Children are not a gift to your partner. Children are what you make together and are jointly responsible for. If they were ever to get a divorce, she would fight for custody. She would also decide if he gets to see the child, when he gets to see the child, and how long he gets to see the child, while still collecting child support from him. So no, she is not doing him a favour having a kid.
However, it does makes sense that one wouldn't want to have more children with a partner whom you've not had the best experience co-parenting with. Having kids will change you. You'll know more about yourself because nobody goes into parenting with experience. Your first child is your first experience. If you had a bad experience parenting one child, it will get worse with more kids. One thing you don't want to do, is be left alone to parent. As a woman, she gets to carry the burden of pregnancy, so forgive her for not wanting to risk it for uncertain parenting. It is worse of the pregnancy experience was not good because the man slacked in his support.
You men need to have better standard too. Women are not exactly role models when it comes to marital partnership or parenting. Good parenting/partnership exist on a case by case basis, not gender. You are the one who choose to give them a pass with all their fuck up. If she is not being a true partner - contributing her income to the home, being homely and feminine, being a good mom, you also have a decision to make.
Marriage is a life time relationship and parenting is a life time responsibility. You want to do it with someone who would die for you and fight for your best interest everyday - whether you are a man or woman. If you choose to do it with a selfish person who doesn't give a fuck about your welfare and best interest or who fails in their duty as a parent to your kids, that is on you.
Your lateral thinking is the problem.
You earned $100k last year.
This year, you want to do $120k, even though you could wipe the slate clean and do a million.
The measurement of your performance against a benchmark that amplifies mediocrity.
That is the problem.
You cannot create the impossible by looking up to the possible.
Break down that frame and construct one that has never existed.
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