Let's normalize telling people, "It seems you don't have the capacity to love me in the ways I want and need, so let's not continue this", and leave it at that.
Ngl if you're not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it won’t work for me because i’m very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone and not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me.
You should not blame someone for needing constant reassurance, some of us have been treated so poorly in the past that we forget people can actually love us. Reassurance costs you nothing but your time
this generation doesn’t know how to build healthy relationships.. we end up saying stuff like “i don’t owe anyone anything.” you do owe people something. you owe those you offended an apology. you owe those who gave you support, gratitude (1/2)