Rihanna that has a whole hairstyle named after her?
Rihanna of Umbrella Ella Ella eh eh?
Rihanna of illuminati?
Rihanna of 666?
Rihanna of good girl gone bad?
Rihanna that had stations banning her song?
Rihanna that the world has been begging for an album +10 years later?
Rihanna of the big three for over a decade?
RIHANNA???
THE Rihanna??? is whom y’all are disrespecting because of a TikTok trend? Yeah, y’all have really gone mad. Social media really does breed a false sense of familiarity because ain’t no way!
Btw, a group of women would never gather like that to harm men. Never. And even if a few tried, other women would step in, and try to shut it down. Even online, women will be talking about harm done to them and you’ll still find other women rushing in to say “but some men are good,” to balance the conversation. Even a movement that was formed to fight for women’s right, most women still distance themselves from it!
But look at that video, hundreds of men, together, in broad daylight laughing, shouting, chasing, trying to participate. No one stopping it or pulling the others back.
It’s always “not all men,” but when things like this happen, it is always men. And more importantly, it is too many men at once for us to keep pretending this is rare or isolated.
At some point, we have to stop dancing around it and say the truth plainly! So irritated!
In 2013, 12-year-old Ifunanya Favour Ibe was abducted, raped, and killed in Ekiti State by 34-year-old Samuel Chukwunyere.
In 2014, 70-year-old Cecilia Ogidi-Okereke was raped to death in a bush in Abia/Oyo by a 32-year-old man while she was gathering leaves.
In 2014, 500-level university student Taiwo Omolara Shittu was raped and killed at her sister’s home in Oyo State.
In 2017, an unnamed 14-year-old girl was gang-raped to death in Abule-Ado, Lagos by a group of local boys.
In 2018, 13-year-old Ochanya Elizabeth Ogbanje died from VVF complications in Benue State after years of repeated rape by her uncle, Andrew Ogbuja, and his son, Victor.
In 2020, 22-year-old Vera Uwaila Omozuwa was brutally raped and struck in the head with a fire extinguisher inside an RCCG parish in Benin City, Edo State, leading to her death days later.
In 2020, 18-year-old Barakat Bello was raped and butchered with machetes during a home robbery in Ibadan, Oyo State.
In 2020, 29-year-old Shomuyiwa Gulako was raped and murdered in her apartment in Ibadan, Oyo State, where her head was smashed with a stone.
In 2020, 11-year-old Zainab Adeyemo was raped and murdered in a bush in Ondo State by an Okada rider, Dare Ojo, while he was transporting her to a market.
In 2020, 11-year-old Favour Okechukwu was gang-raped to death in the Ejigbo area of Lagos.
In 2021, 14-year-old Karen-Happuch Aondodoo Akpagher died from complications following a rape incident at her school in Abuja.
In 2021, job seeker Iniobong Umoren was lured to a fake interview, raped, and murdered in Akwa Ibom State by Uduak Akpan.
In 2021, 300-level student Blessing Olajide was raped and strangled in her home in Ilorin, Kwara State.
In 2021, an unnamed 6-year-old girl was raped to death in Kaduna State.
In 2022, 22-year-old Oluwabamise (Bamise) Ayanwola was abducted, raped, and murdered in Lagos aboard a BRT bus driven by Andrew Nice Ominikoron, who was supported by unidentified accomplices.
In 2024, 2-year-old Umma Salma died from severe penetration injuries after being raped beside a mosque in Ningi, Bauchi State.
In 2025, 34-year-old Ugochi Anosike was raped and strangled in her room in Oyigbo, Rivers State.
In 2025, Banke William Jimoh was raped to death and had her neck slashed during a home invasion in Keffi, Nasarawa State, by unidentified armed men.
In 2025, 3-year-old Harira Yakubu Bala was found dead with multiple injuries in a bush in Jigawa State after being raped and molested.
In 2025, 2-year-old Maryam Ahmad was sexually assaulted in Bassa, Plateau State by 26-year-old Job Josiah; she survived the physical attack but remains severely traumatized.
In 2025, 64-year-old Mulikat Sanni was raped and murdered in Ondo State by her grandson, Ahmed Toheed, over witchcraft allegations.
In 2026, a 4-year-old girl was allegedly assaulted at an Islamic school in Jikwoyi, Abuja by the son of a teacher.
In 2026, there’s a RAPE FESTIVAL currently ongoing in Ozoro. Victims neither be name nor accounted for.
These are the very few cases that made it to the social media. The only things that the victims have in common, is a vagina. Babies, old women, sluts, prudes, sex-workers, girlfriends, in their homes, in the church, in the mosque, in the bush, in a bus, in a school… they just need to exist.
“Cover yourself, dress properly, mind where you go”… some where covered, some didn’t need to be cover because they were babies, some went to church, some were just commuting, some didn’t even go anywhere because they were in their house.
You are not going to disrespect Our Women like this please!!!
We have great NIGERIA WOMEN who are leading in different sectors, that you don’t know them doesn’t mean they don’t exist.
Nigerian women don’t know more than cooking and fighting for marital rites? Really???
Because the same Nigerian women are: Writers,Footballers,Doctors,Actors,Fashion designers,Chefs and many more.
They are Performing surgeries,Winning court cases,Leading tech teams,Running farms,Owning restaurants,Creating films,Starting movements,Providing for families.
Yes, many Nigerian women know how to cook and they also know how to build wealth
Reducing over 100 million women to pots and bridal lists is disrespectful to US and says more about the speaker than the women.
If you only see cooking, maybe you’ve only been looking at the kitchen.
And even there?
You’ll still find CEOs like Hilda Baci breaking records.
Five books that will break your heart💔:
1.A thousand splendid suns by Khaled Hosseini
2.Kite runner by Khaled Hosseini
3.A man called Ove by Fredrik Backman
4. As long as the lemon tree grows by Zoulfa
5.White Knights by Fyodor Dostoyevsky
Men should hold other men accountable. Many of you create safe spaces for your friends' perverted and wicked behavior because "I'm not like that". I take a fucking pepper spray when I walk outside alone or with my daughter. Do you think I'm scared of other women? If you're not a rapist and people calling out rapists bother you, you need to sit and have a conversation with yourself. Because why are you triggered if you're not guilty???
There’s this thing Nigerians do when someone especially women speak up about something vile done to them. Suddenly, the victim must be a saint, must be holy, must be kind, free of any form of vices.
They start sanctimoniously digging for an old tweet or mistake to “taint” their victimhood.
Does someone deserve less justice because they’re flawed?
There is no perfect victim, because there is no perfect human.