when @Oloni asked something along the lines of could ppl call/consider calling whoever they're sleeping with at the moment in a moment of need and ppl (mainly men, shock) were abhorred at such an idea
REVIEW: "The Big O" by Oloni and "Pleasure Please!" by Ashley Cobb are unapologetic guides to love, sex, pleasure.
Written by award-winning Black women sex educators from the UK and the United States, these books are empowering manifestos that centres Black women's pleasure. Both author's grew up in conservative Christian families where sex education was limited, especially in regard to female pleasure. This led the authors to embark on a discovery to reclaim sexual agency, prioritise women's sexual health and explore female desire. The books also break down societal and cultural barriers women face, as well as addressing purity culture and shame.
The Big O by @Oloni gives women a space to celebrate topics and conversations that have historically only been whispered about behind closed doors.
Pleasure, Please! by @sexwithashley_ presents a fresh, unapologetic guide to Black women's pleasure and challenges traditional norms so that women can embrace their sexuality and rewrite the narrative with confidence.
Men can also read these books as the sex expert authors give great insight into modern day dating and practical advice on how to satisfy a woman. Recommended reads.
I truly understand how you feel…and that’s exactly why I chose to apologize publicly because the disrespect became public. On that call I didn’t even mean to call you that, I didn’t mean any harm.. There’s a difference in what I said vs what I meant. What I could have said was you was too forgiving and gave too much mercy in that situation.. But it was a heated conversation and I let my mouth get the best of me. When the call came out I was eight months pregnant, had just released my album, and was extremely overwhelmed and emotional. Thats not to excuse what I said but to let you know where I was in my head. I genuinely felt bad about what happened. In 2025 and 2026 I made multiple attempts to connect…I spoke with your manager, your sister, and even texted you directly to take full responsibility. I always had love and respect for you ! I always wanted to make it right but making it right looks different for the both of us… I wanted to connect with you but you wanted to address it on your album
I would like to point out that even though Daphne Joy is so distraught over her freak-off tape with Diddy getting leaked, her OnlyFans is having an 85% off sale.
Asake hopped on the viral hit ‘Chanel’ with Blaqbonez and it’s going global
The song is now in the top 10 highest first-day streamed songs in Nigeria ever 🤯
i think this industry is very wicked because since i dropped Chanel, none of my peers have posted it @drake i posted yours last week, @centralcee@1future@1GunnaGunna I support you when you drop but when i put out the biggest song of the summer its crickets, the double standards