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Mohbad naira Marley
You need boredom. A lot of it. Start by going on walks without music. No stimulation. No distractions of any kind. If you learn to sit with your own thoughts, for long enough, in time they will start serving you. You'll start having ideas once again. You'll start developing an extreme sense of clarity that will shift you into the next stage of your life. All by being bored, which is pretty insane.
Because that’s about the only one we can get at the expense of nothing at least..
- Quality time ? - Bills still on us
- Words of affirmation ? - Feels like we’re begging for reassurance so we’ll rather not be labelled ‘insecure’
- Receiving gifts ? - From selfish ‘people’ that only want to be gifted ?
- Acts of service ? - Y’all call it ‘sl@very’ now.
So…
"What is she doing with her money if her money is her money?"
This is exactly what she is doing. You as a man is shouldering all the bills and she is busy footing bills in her father's house.
"Women are not wired to pay bills" una. How are they always paying bills and carrying responsibility in their father's house? She doesn't care about you. It is that simple. Where your money is, that is where your heart is. Her heart is in her father's home.
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To address your question, every income in a home is family income. You and your partner are to plan your finances and decide how much you send to each family each month. If emergency arises, you can discuss and see how much you can send, then you know how to navigate the rest of the month as a family. In situations where there is a joint account where you put like 80% of your income each for the home and keep 20% for yourselves, you can send extra money home from your 20%, which is yours to spend as you please.
What you will not do is keep your entire salary to yourself and be paying bills in your father's house while abandoning your primary responsibility which is your immediate family.