So much of a woman’s life really just comes down to this:
• don’t get fat (don’t starve yourself either)
• stay GROOMED (blow-dries, nails, clear skin, tailored clothes, beautiful scent)
• minimise exposure to endocrine disruptors
• be a little dominant (the man has to fear you just a LITTLE bit for it to work). never be a pushover
• take care of your female friendships. your girls are your village
• sunlight, red light, collagen, vitamin C & E, carbs, magnesium, animal (gelatinous) protein, cholesterol
• oysters, liver, eggs, shellfish. eat your minerals
• café latte and orange juice every hour
• have your own finances sorted. never be financially helpless
• learn how to cook REALLY well
• have flowers in your house at all times
• never underestimate the metabolic power of being loved, touched and adored
• learn to say no and to stop being a people pleaser. a no is a no is a no is a no and it’s a complete sentence; the opposite will give you autoimmune disease in the long run
• dance off the stress (learn to out-disco anything this evil world wants to throw your way)
• spend time with babies and animals
• build something of your own. purpose is pro-metabolic
• don’t argue with people committed to misunderstanding you
• learn to recognise good men and treat them well, the rest is non-existent to you
• similarly, pay no attention to terrible men; exit the relationship before it’s too late (again: it all comes down to intuition and being in tune with yourself!)
• have standards so high they make mediocre people uncomfortable… but don’t be a dick
• spend time in nature, preferably somewhere with mountains and cows
• don’t let the internet convince you that being feminine means being weak
• walk with God
• do no harm but take no sh1t
• be high maintenance always
• don’t forget the whimsy
• whatever the mass media say, probably investigate the opposite
• recognise that you’re more powerful that you think xx
I pray that I never block my own blessings. I’ve seen people do it and it’s painful to watch. May ego, pride, revenge, jealousy, pettiness, or any other negative behaviour never get in the way of me accessing good things.