ta🦋

[Jack @zackchaerul]

gausah banyak janji, if you don’t mean it.

[Verel @problemetik]

Siapa yang setuju sama opini ini?

[ً @JJHLOOKS]

jeong jaehyun..

[ㅇㅇ #𝓙 @dearestyunoh]

husband coded jaehyun 🧎‍♀️

[Zaka✨ @zakariamlk]

“sayanggg” is the most beautiful, soft, sweet, and romantic word that has been spoken.

[ta🦋 @omfgta]

@sbyfess ayo kak

[ta🦋 @omfgta]

@sbyfess klo weekday aku budget maksimal 20rb tp klo weekend budget maks 200rb

[✨ @jaehyunnier]

temenku yg gak into kpop ngomong gini ttg jaehyun 🥹

[ta🦋 @omfgta]

@sbyfess 😌😌😌

[gara @anggarasamvdr]

siapa yang spesies gini juga? 🙋🏻‍♂️🙋🏻‍♂️🙋🏻‍♂️

[ta🦋 @omfgta]

@taesnshine udaaa ka

[ta🦋 @omfgta]

aku br banget bikin akun tiktok, yukkss mutualan
https://t.co/zBLIlm1FHx

[ta🦋 @omfgta]

@tanyakanrl yukss https://t.co/zBLIlm1FHx

[ta🦋 @omfgta]

@tanyakanrl yuuu, aku br banget bikin akun
https://t.co/zBLIlm1FHx

[ta🦋 @omfgta]

@sbyfess aku selalu menerapkan 50 : 50 gak cuma pas liburan tp di setiap saat sih even main pas malming

[Sadam Permana @sadampermana_w]

Demo kemarin tentang apa?

[Orbi ツ @orbitually]

Guys.. no.. ☹️

Sebagai org yg pernah sampe bolak balik psikolog & psikiater minum obat gara2 seorang avoidant.. I now feel pity for them..

Mereka tuh sebenernya juga butuh dan mau mencintai.. but it scares them so much (bisa krn banyak faktor) and most of the time they already hates themselves.. it’s actually pretty sad..

Instead of blaming them (the avoidants) aku skrg lebih berusaha memahami kalo mereka cm berusaha melindungi diri mereka sendiri due to their traumas..

The best way to face avoidants is.. just let them be. Gaperlu coba untuk “memperbaiki” mereka dgn cara kasih cinta yg lebih banyak, it only scares them. Instead, set your own boundaries, self respect and expectations. Pahami bahwa bukan salah dan tanggung jawab kita bahwa mereka blm mampu buat meregulasi emosi dan komunikasi mereka scr baik. And find peace with the situation.

I hope both avoidants and their “victims” are healed and can develop secure attachment. May we find love that is gentle and soft. Sending hugs for everyone 🫂