Smart people who look down on the importance of experience often spend years working on the wrong goals. Broadening your horizons is the first thing you should do when you are young: meeting people from all ages, backgrounds, cultures; traveling around; taking risks; being wrong:
If you have a circle of confident, smart, non-judgmental friends with whom you can regularly meet in person and share highly stimulating conversations with, you are already naturally increasing your surface of luck:
Life is actually more stressful when your goals aren’t challenging enough.
You are wasting your time, and you know it.
Peace of mind is just the art of playing life on the right difficulty level.
It's easy to marry, it's hard to marry well.
It's easy to invest, it's hard to be free.
It's easy to meet people, it's hard to have real friends.
It's easy to read books, it's hard to have original thoughts.
It's easy to make money, it's hard to have a real impact.
Confident and talented people are often believed to be judgmental, but anyone with self-confidence and talent knows that when you know you have potential, you don't waste it on judging others; being judgmental is mostly a sign that you gave up on achieving anything noteworthy.
A lot of "social anxiety" is actually just life telling you that you are spending too much time either on social media or around average minds with no meaningful purpose.