The way men let a lack of self control when it comes to sex derail their entire lives genuinely baffles me. Careers, relationships, finances, reputations, even basic peace of mind… all sacrificed over impulses they refuse to manage.
Bro, it stuns me every damn time.
Real life is a negotiated construct. Lose these abstractions to life and relationships, and you'll lead quite the satisfactory life. Sometimes she'll earn more, sometime you'll earn more. Sometimes it works, with others it fails. Do not outsource your relationship to pundits.
When you’re young, it’s harder to believe.
But a lot of people have an absurd amount of honest money.
The trick is finding the opportunity that gets you to see that world, and maybe claim a place in it yourself.
Sub go just dey fly for CT everytime on top different theologies 😂😂😂, is this christlike behaviour, ehn?
I learn a lot and enjoy the drama too much. Will probably get tired of it one day.
Couples ought to realize that marriage is not the union of two identical people. It is the union of two different people whom God intends to become one. The healthiest marriages are not those where differences disappear; they are those where differences are understood, respected, and stewarded wisely. Couples who learn to honor one another's God-given differences often discover that those very differences become one of the greatest strengths in their marriage.
You can't "out-innovate" a failing government.
For example.
If you, as a Nigerian want to receive SWIFT payment today, 99% of all the fintechs we have CANNOT allow you do it.
It has nothing to do with a lack of technology.
It's a governance issue.
You cannot solve a problem that your government wants unsolved.
If Sanwo-Olu decides to ban all bikes on the road of Lagos tomorrow, including dispatch riders, most food delivery apps will die.
You cannot out-innovate a failed government.
Becoming a parent means watching your personal ambitions yield to a greater purpose. There is a heavy melancholy in possibly taming ambitions to make room for both worlds but it’s also the exact moment you finally appreciate the quiet sacrifices your own parents made for you.
Capitalism ruins literally everything 😄 twitter went from daily ranting logs to just a tailored engagement farming app like ppl are just saying anything rn for pennies 😅