I don’t know mehn but I really think that a consideration for marriage is being with someone that makes life very easy for you. The quality of your life has to improve after marriage otherwise there is no point.
That is why I don’t like it when people who say that marriage is an ibadah interpret it wrongly and it starts leaning into enduring abuse, suffering and smiling, staying put in toxic situations and putting your needs below everyone else’s needs.
This dunya is hard. Your spouse shouldn’t make it harder.
I find the tafsir of Surat Duha by Sheikh Yasir Qadhi uplifting and inspiring when life gets hard and I am losing my sense of being and balance.
Sometimes even the best of us get frustrated and depressed, it’s always been helpful for me
Available on YouTube , might want to check it out
If you’re hunting for a remote job, the first interview should be the easiest round to clear.
Here are the questions recruiters ALWAYS ask, and the answers they actually want to hear:
One of the reasons I got into tech and remote work was to not let location hinder the progress of my wife’s career
And she knows
She can choose to build a career anywhere and my work will not hold me back
I would just have to pack my bags and follow her 😍
Some of the meanest men are not loud. They come wrapped in manners, soft voices, and fake patience. They gaslight. They manipulate. They project. They mentally exhaust you. Pay attention to his patterns…
am i the only one who doesn’t mind spoilers? 😭
like you can literally tell me how it ends, i don’t care.
i even go looking for spoilers before i watch the movie/show.