Omoraka James

[Omoraka James @omorakaj]

@AndrewBolis @sallman009 Guide

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

A married woman should not have more than 3 close female friends.

And all the female friends must be married and believe in the sanctity of marriage.

Any married woman with too many females as friends may ruin her marriage sooner or later.

End.

[Arojinle @arojinle1]

Let me start with this? If humans were bees, there won't be corruption. As a queen (leader) in a bee colony, you're like a chief servant. She is only allowed to take actions that makes the colony progress and flourish. If for any reason, a queen bee becomes corrupted (genetically) and does anything (not knowingly)that is detrimental to the growth of the hive, she get killed by the worker bees. A new queen is then raised.

If for any reason, the queen is incapacitated and isn't fit again, she is killed and a new queen is raised.

The workers are diligent and serve the colony with all their powers. They serve the queen too and will protect her with their lives, as long as she's still good for the colony.

Also, I leant the importance of eating good nutritious food from honey bees. I'm working on an article that will expose food as a very powerful tool, in a dimension that most people haven't seen, very soon.

Did you know that a teaspoon of honey is the life work of 12 honey bees? Also, real honey doesn't spoil.

More to come.

[Ayilola of Nigeria /Laptop Guy 🩺 🇳🇬 🇬🇧🇺🇸 @silverpenydr]

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[The married man @marriedmn]

Protect your marriage from:

-The unmarried,
-The never married,
-The unhappily married,
- Those who cant get married, and couldn't stay married.

These are the kind of people wrecking peoples marriages. Treat them like enemies.

[The married man @marriedmn]

My favorite quote that I've ever heard about marriage came from the philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche. He said, "Marriage is a long conversation." And to me, what that means is that when you marry someone, you should ask yourself a question.

Do you believe that this is a person you're going to enjoy talking to for the rest of your life? Because everything else in a relationship is transitory.

Looks come and go, interests come and go, finances come and go, family problems come and go.
But at the end of the day, can you spend the rest of your life in this conversation? This is so profound because all the things that we care about when we're young, when we meet somebody, 99% of them will not matter anymore once we hit old age.

Careers come and go, money comes and goes, families come and go. But if you can sustain that conversation through everything else, you can always have a great marriage.

[Cyborg Warlord @Admiral_Cyborg]

Iran that's being bombarded by America and Israel, sells fuel to its citizens for about ₦45 per litre.

Libya sells theirs for about ₦32.

Nigeria, an oil-producing giant, makes its own people pay over ₦1,000 per litre.

There's no pipeline vandalism going on in the country, we are not facing wars in the South and East, but we bleed to buy fuel. Let that sink in. We are blessed with crude, yet punished at the pump.

The tragedy isn't that we're poor; it's that we've normalized policies that make Nigerians suffer in a nation overflowing with resources. This isn't just economics. It's a betrayal of the people.

[Dr. Omolola Anthonia Eddo @dranthoniaeddo]

If I give a full time scholarship in tech , a laptop , pay hostel fees and monthly stipend !

Will you take tech seriously ?

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

After Hagar fled from Sarah for maltreating her out of jealousy, she went to the wilderness where God appeared to her and blessed her because the child she was carrying was a seed of Abraham. After God blessed her, she called him ‘El Roi’ - meaning, the God who sees me.

Prior to that time, no one had ever seen her. Her only identity was Sarah’s hand maid. Sarah saw her as a maid. Abraham saw her as Sarah’s maid. People saw her as Sarah’s maid. But for the first time in her life, someone saw her. Someone saw her enough to bless her. That is also the very first time someone gave God a name - El Roi.

I don’t know what you’re going through but I know many of you are at your lowest point and nobody sees you. I pray God sees you. El Roi ❤️

[Arojinle @arojinle1]

This is the wild ancestor of our domestic goats. When I said our domestic goat is not ours, people came for me on Facebook. We do not have wild goats. Domestic goats are domesticated from bezoar ibex.

You can get emotional or delusional but facts will always stare right into your face.

[Omoraka James @omorakaj]

@HeartMattaz Amen!

[The married man @marriedmn]

Marriage is not a democracy where everyone votes on every decision. A husband leads, a wife supports both roles matter, but they are not identical.

The moment a woman starts competing with her man, the marriage becomes a boxing ring, not a partnership. Modern social media has too many “advisers” who can’t keep a relationship for more than three business days telling you how to run your home.

Don’t let people who ruined their own lives convince you to ruin yours.

[Heart Mattaz by Rita @HeartMattaz]

All the men that is following me,

Do you know the man your sister is dating either secretly or openly???

What does he do for a living?

Have you met him before?

Have you had a conversation with him before???

Do you know whether he is married or in another relationship????

Have you investigated him???

Or whether your sister is sleeping with or dating is not your business???

If you cannot protect your sister, or you cannot control your sister, you won't be able to do the same to your woman????

HeartMattaz

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

If your wife is on Snapchat...

End.

[Heart Mattaz by Rita @HeartMattaz]

Let me help you to elaborate on your confusion.

1. Men have refused to be used as a retirement plan by you women.
2. Men have refused to be an ATM for some of you women
3. Men have refused to waste their precious time with you because most of you do not know what you want.
4. Men have refused to be fools to your women
5. Men have refused to be the second option to some of you women
6. Men have refused to be with adult women who want to be paid for being in a relationship
7. Men have refused to be with you women because a lot of you are allergic to accountability, boundaries and transparency
8. Men have chosen peace over unnecessary drama because a lot of you survived in chaos
9. Men have refused to be with a who ain't done with her ex
10. Men have refused to buy love, attention and affection.
11. Men have refused to be in a one-sided relationship because a lot of you do not know reciprocity.

You and the rest are single because you all are confionists, entitlement mongers, financial vamp!res and ungrateful b@stards.

HeartMattaz

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

I don't want to share a DM discussion that I had with a woman that is married to a pastor, because her husband reads from me.

A very horrible man.

And from the questions that I asked her, I knew that she wasn't lying.

This man made his wife stop her job even when she was submitting all her salary to him.

He was earning 50% less of what she was earning.

And then he started cheating and rubbing it on her face and starving her and the children.

If she complains, he'll starve the children more.

She resigned many years ago.

I am fully aware of what she would be earning now if she was still working.

And you know the most annoying part?

What the man man earns today is not even up to 20% of what she would be earning if she had not resigned.

She told me that she loves her husband.

I told her that loving her husband was her undoing.

Because she enabled him.

I know that I said that men should be 5 steps ahead of their wives.

But in his case, he was 10 steps backward, so he decided to ruin his wife's job so that she won't be ahead of him.

But he's isn't an ambitious man.

Laid back and "believing" in his bible.

And then because of his selfish decisions, his kids are suffering.

And so is his wife.

But he married a very beautiful wife.

She sent me her picture.

I asked her repeatedly to tell me truth if she has ever cheated on her husband (even when I promised her that I will not share the DM)

She insisted that she has never cheated.

And that her mother never raised her that way.

Her husband is her second man.

At first, she didn't tell me that he is a pastor.

When she eventually told me, my response was:

"Oh Oh"

End.

[NneChukwu! @Okeke_Uz]

Dear Parents,

Talk to your children. Sit them down, immediately they turn teenagers or even earlier, and have those difficult but necessary conversations with them, whether they are boys or girls.

Deceitful men and women are getting slicker in the ways and patterns they use to exploit vulnerable children. Tell your sons and daughters the dangers of asking for help, especially financial help, from strangers offline and online.

Teach your children not to trust blindly, and to stay alert in any and every situation, to keep them on their toes.

The world keeps getting darker, and the minds of humans keep getting more evil.

"Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves." Matthew 10:16. Use this verse to teach them to combine serpent-like shrewdness with dove-like innocence.

They should be shrewd enough to navigate danger, but without malice in their own character. You should let them know it is okay to act cunningly to escape a situation.

If there is ever a time to be as wise as a serpent in raising children, it is now.

[NneChukwu! @Okeke_Uz]

People love saying marriage is fifty-fifty but life disagrees. Life can switch up numbers at any given time. 20/80, 60/40, 80/20, 15/15, and so on.

There will be seasons when your husband will carry ninety because you're recovering from childbirth, grieving, battling illness or simply exhausted.

There will also be seasons when you're carrying eighty because he lost his job, buried a parent, is drowning under pressure or is emotionally depleted.

There will be seasons where the two you will need to be carried by some external forces that all you would do was lie, wait and pray in each other's arms.

Healthy marriages are not built on keeping score, they're built on asking, "What does my family need from me today?"

Couples who last are the ones who understood that love sometimes means carrying more without keeping a record of it.

[Ẹniọla 🇳🇬 @treatpworld]

She closed her eyes in front of ten thousand women and told them, if you're afraid, leave now while I can't see you.

Nobody left.

Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti was a schoolteacher in Abeokuta, southwest Nigeria, when she watched market women around her being crushed by the Alake, the town's traditional king, and the colonial system propping him up. Women as young as 15 were taxed separately from their husbands, regardless of income. Soldiers set up roadblocks specifically to confiscate goods from women traders bringing food into the city. The Alake himself was later accused of demanding sex from women seeking refuge in his palace, then charging them for the shelter.

In 1946, Funmilayo turned her small ladies' club into something far bigger: the Abeokuta Women's Union, eventually growing to an estimated 20,000 members, uniting market women who couldn't read with the educated elite who could, under one shared demand: no taxation without representation.

They tried petitions first. Between August 1946 and May 1947, the AWU sent request after request to the Alake, asking him to simply listen. His response was to increase the tax instead, with the full backing of the British colonial resident.

So the women stopped asking.

In October 1946, Funmilayo led close to a thousand women in a march straight to the palace. Police responded with tear gas and beatings. The women came back anyway, and kept coming back, in growing numbers, for two more years.

By November 1947, over ten thousand women camped outside the Alake's palace for two straight days, refusing to leave, singing songs specifically designed to mock and humiliate him publicly. This is the moment Funmilayo closed her eyes and told every woman there she was free to walk away without shame. Every single one stayed.

The Alake tried offering a handful of women token positions of power, hoping to split the movement from the inside. It didn't work. In December 1947, more than ten thousand women camped outside his palace again, this time refusing to leave until every arrested woman was released. They held their ground for two days until he gave in.

Funmilayo herself was arrested more than once for refusing to pay her taxes. She was banned from even entering the palace grounds after the Alake accused her of insulting him. None of it stopped her.

By April 1948, something shifted that the women hadn't fully expected. The men of Abeokuta, watching what their wives, mothers, and daughters had endured and refused to back down from, finally spoke publicly in support of the women's demands.

On January 3, 1949, after more than two years of sustained, disciplined pressure, the Alake abdicated his throne entirely. The tax on women was abolished. Four women, Funmilayo among them, were appointed to the new governing council that replaced the old system, the first women in that region's history to hold that kind of formal political power.

Years later, the same Alake admitted publicly that he couldn't hate her, even after everything, because he admired what he called her guts.

Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti would go on to become the first woman in Nigeria to drive a car, a leading voice in the fight for national independence, and the mother of Afrobeat legend Fela Kuti. But before any of that, she was a teacher who decided a king's throne mattered less than the dignity of the women selling food in his market.

Sources: Wikipedia, "Abeokuta Women's Revolt"; African Feminist Forum, "Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti (Nigeria)"; History Workshop, "Time and the 1947 Abeokuta Women's Revolt"

©️SallyWrites

[Omoraka James @omorakaj]

@arojinle1 Wow, really. Thanks