don't get me wrong, my decision to love buff women is a political one. in a world where girls are pressured into staying weak and dainty, fragile, docile, subservient, why wouldn't i support the opposite? that i want to be thrown around like a stuffed animal is besides the point
i think when a person of color is complaining about racism you should probably just listen instead of hitting the "not all men" equivalent for your group
if you can understand why women have to view all men as a potential misogynist/threat even if there are some 'good ones' out there, then you should be able to understand how the same thing applies for race. if the shoe doesn't fit just leave it alone
trying to work up to going to the local games store and playing magic the gathering with strangers but i legitimately don't know how people do this. can i simply sit at a table there and wait for someone to play with me
every now and then when i am going about my day just grabbing bagels at the bakery or smiling at strangers in the park i remember that there are a concerning number of people who have themselves convinced my entire identity is some weird fetish and it makes me sad
wish i could have simply been born a císgender boy so i could autopilot life on easy mode but instead my brain had to say ^-^ yayyyy girl time yipeee :D and now i get harassed walking to the Red Robin bathroom