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@delontemartell Haha, I meant Elon Musk taking over

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Done deleting all content from this account. No mental health break or anything like that, I just couldn’t reconcile using the account with my disgust for a certain musky miscreant anymore.

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@dendritedogwood Oh I didn't even know you were an academic

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Suggestions for alternative community spaces are very welcome. Bluesky’s very empty unfortunately …

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@TannorReed 🤗

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@bellafwee There, did that work?

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@KinkyTwink100 @thetwinkelf I wonder if this is the kind of conversation that led certain French theorists to develop certain ideas ... 🤔

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@CaffeinatedDerg No wait, actually, I'd say hi first and ask how you got in 🤔

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@itsonlypxls ideal, whether it's your own or others'. You're changing all the time anyways. But giving yourself as you are right now some space to just be can be really wonderful (and difficult).

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@itsonlypxls And then if you don't feel sexual because you're, say, ashamed of your body, you get an additional layer of being ashamed of being ashamed.

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@itsonlypxls Because then instead of 'sex-positivity' meaning greater freedom to explore (including exploring not being sexual at a given time, or being sexual in certain ways and not others), not being 'sex-positive' enough turns into an individual failure.