Love is not a sin.
I wish weโd have the same energy focused on the so-called leaders in gurdwaras that are predators, harming children, and gatekeeping power for personal gain over anything else. Itโs funny you mainly mentioned the bride here. The groom is consenting, no?
This post is not coming from a place of love. Instead of sexualizing a woman (which is also not an act of love) in perfectly beautiful clothing, maybe letโs focus on how far we have actually strayed from Sikhi. How far we are from expanding towards love and harmony.
The words used here do not invoke a thoughtful conversation. It tears people down and purposely attempts to evoke shame, which is the most insidious thing we can do to another human.
So, what are we really doing here?
The Nanaksar Gurdwara in Richmond continues to be led by absolute goofs. Bride wearing mad revealing clothing, her gori friends barely covering their heads, they need a special mat to sit on, and then kissing at the gurdwara??
How moronic are people man? These people have no care for Sikhi. They just want their photoshoot.
We gotta start slapping these greedy committee members.