I think that’s partly due to it being a cultural norm. In the white community, teens take their partners home in high school and families are guiding those relationships. Black teens are taught dating is a crime and are then expected to pull a spouse and kids out a hat
A narcissist ngga will make sure everybody OUTSIDE the house think he the realest dude alive. Always smiling, always helping folks, always tryna be the hero where people can see it. But behind closed doors? He a cold, dismissive, emotionally draining, ngga that treat the ones who love him the worst. Baby, he don’t care about being a good man… he care about LOOKING like one. That image mean way more to him than his actual character.
I commend every single mom out there. Seriously. Raising kids, working, keeping a household together, making decisions alone, and still finding a way to show up every single day is not easy. A lot of y’all are doing the job of two people and still somehow making it look effortless. I see you, and I hope you know you’re doing an amazing job. 🤍