Privacy is not power by default.
It is protection.
Posting everything is stupid, agreed.
But hiding everything does not make you powerful… it makes you invisible.
We have to control what people know… not erase yourself entirely.
Smart men share selectively.
Signal value… hide vulnerabilities.
Most people swing extremes.
Overshare and get exposed… or disappear and get ignored.
Power sits in the middle.
So my boyfriend took me to see his family today…..they asked me to stay outside while they discuss a serious family matter, only to find out they were eating.😭