Whatโs keeps me from returning to exes or old lovers is the fear that my child will ask me โmom, how did you and dad meet?โ And I will have the memories of him treating me like shit circling my brain. Itโs a bad example to set.
I rather continue to start over as many times as I have to just to ensure that I am loved right THE FIRST TIME.
@xclusive_mystic Happiness really grows when you care about others instead of only chasing your own. Helping someone else feel joy often brings more joy to you than trying to grab it for yourself. Life works best when we lift each other up and share the good.
A teacher gave a balloon to every student, who had to inflate it, write their name on it, and throw it in the hallway.
The teacher then mixed all the balloons. The students were given 5 minutes to find their own balloon.
Despite a hectic search, no one found their balloon, At that point, the teacher told the students to take the first balloon they found and hand it to the person whose name was written on it.
Within 5 minutes, everyone had their own balloon. The teacher said to the students, "These balloons arelike happiness.
We will never find it if everyone is
looking for their own. But if we care about other people's happiness, we'll find ours too."
May your day be filled with happiness!๐
People aren't knowing each other well enough but creating life together and thats why the co- parenting is hell when the lust and romance is gone. Because now you trying to raise a human with someone with a total different world view than you.
I needed to heal the part of me that wanted to cut someone off at the slightest inconvenience or disagreement instead of just communicating, we can talk it out now!
Having a man whoโs a problem solver and wanting to make life peaceful & worry free for his lady is underrated. You truly have to appreciate those who were raised to be protectors in every aspect of life
Iโm so glad I never went through the phase of waiting on people to do anything for me or with me. I will literally go anywhere by myself or make shit happen for myself everytime.
The older you get, the more you realize Godly friendships aren't just a blessing. They're a necessity. You don't need a big circle. You need people who pray with you, correct you with love, carry no hate, no envy, celebrate when you win, and push you to become your best.