PSA: YOUR KIDS COME FIRST!‼️‼️‼️‼️They come before your Bf/Gf . They come before your friends. They come before partying. They come before drugs/alcohol. They come before your job. They come before money. They come before your car. They come before your own selfish wants, needs, desires, dreams. THEY COME FIRST POINT BLANK PERIOD!
i do not ever want a nigga to settle for me. get yo dream bitch & if you can't, don't bother me. i want a nigga that got the biggest crush on me lie prayed for me & didn't ever dm none of my homegirls.
Love after 25 is different. You’re not looking for sparks. You’re looking for stability, kindness and shared goals. You’ve outgrown games and butterflies. You’re craving peace, emotional safety, and someone whose future aligns with yours.
Once I start looking at you differently, it's a wrap. No amount of apologies will fix it. I'm not even mad at you, you're just so weird to me now. That goes for family, friends, relationships all that.
In a relationship, whenever a man wants to end it, he starts mentally torturing you. He changes his behavior and treats you so badly that you become emotionally and mentally exhausted. Then he goes around crying in front of other people, saying, 'She left me.'
That's how the male psyche works.
They're all the same..
I don’t like to be mad because I have a lot to be glad about. I like to hold a little space for ill feelings and then let them roll off my shoulder. Then I smile again.
sex is so meaningful to me 😭 I can’t just do it with anybody I gotta really like & want it from you! that’s why it takes me forever cause once I do, I’m only doing it with you! nobody else.
Normalize not forcing your importance in someone's life. Let people do what they want so you can see what they'd rather do. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don’t try to convince them.
When you have something good, you don't play with it. You don't take chances losing it. You don't neglect it. When you have something good, you pour into it. You appreciate it... because when you take care of something good, that good thing takes care of you too
Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.