@lizzkelly7 The thing is, any thing that takes you away from the love of your family and friends is not going to be beneficial to you, rather, it will drain you.
Some loves, relationships are not meant for us, not matter how beautiful they look.
"If I wanted to buy a cup of coffee, I had to ask."
Mom's face tightened.
"What?"
He nodded.
"I had no income. Everything was in her name."
As time passed, the relationship became less like a marriage and more like an arrangement.
Whenever they argued, she'd remind him that everything he owned belonged to her.
The house.
The cars.
The lifestyle.
Even his phone.
His wife owned several businesses, lived in a mansion, and promised he'd never have to worry about money again.
She encouraged him to quit his job.
Then she encouraged him to stop seeing his old friends.
Then she suggested family visits were creating unnecessary drama.
By the second year, she controlled every bank account.
Every purchase.
Every decision.
When my brother was 22, he shocked everyone by marrying a woman nearly twice his age. He insisted he was in love. The rest of us were convinced he was chasing her wealth.
For years, family gatherings were tense. He stopped visiting. My parents refused to speak about him.
Then one winter evening, he appeared on our doorstep alone.
The luxury car was gone. The expensive clothes were gone. The confidence was gone.
"I need somewhere to stay," he said.
I thought his rich wife had finally realized what everyone else already knew.
But when he sat down and told us why he left, we discovered he hadn't been trapped by her money.
He'd been trapped by something far worse.....
@Wizarab10 Brotherhood ends where pillow talk begins. Love your wife all you want, but if she knows everything the boys discuss, don't be surprised when nobody tells you anything important.
As a guy, if your friend is scared of his babe or wife, never tell him anything confidential. CUT HIM OFF!
A man who has to run home at 7pm so madam no go vex. A man who has to crosscheck every decision with his wife so she doesn't vex and veto it. A man who doesnt call the shot in his house. A man who has to relay every conversation with the boys with his wife. AVOID!!!
She is destroying him and he will destroy you by exposing every conversation to her for her validation.
I admit it.
I smoke.
idgaf half of the time
I'm bipolar
I like being alone
i overthink
I get attached too fast
I'm always zoning out
I get irritated easily
Stay Spiritually Disciplined,that will save you from wasting money and running around spiritualists.
Don't sleep with every woman
Don't pick every calls,some are for monitoring
Don't attend every Event
Give more than you receive
Don't trust everyone, avoid over sharing