Can’t show up to the dinner scene because you don’t have glam, but filmed a scene outside by the pool to be dramatic. Then when the dinner scene got active you showed up to spectate…. Without glam. lol Kimberly is boring me 🥱
I was able to break out of that pattern by asking myself “Am I actually in the wrong, or am I taking responsibility for someone else’s actions because I feel obligated to be the bigger person in order to preserve this friendship or relationship?”…
It also opens the for a better relationship with God, allowing for you crave only His presence and not the presence of other people. Fuel your spirit, not your flesh. Hard lesson, amazing learning opportunity!
Full offence, but if I openly communicate the ways that your actions & words have hurt me & you choose to ignore my truth because it challenges you, then I won't feel bad for removing you. I don't have time for immaturity, manipulation, projection, or passive behaviour.
My prayer point this year is for God to lead me. I don’t want to do guesswork anymore or move by trial and error. I want to walk in divine direction and precision. Nothing in my life will be by chance. God is intentionally orchestrating it all.