Olin

EXO + Sehun + Kai + San 4 better life🖤

[Olin @oohcxcxn]

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[rhea @swanliady]

Dua porsi kekalahan adalah manjain gengsi dan manjain mood

[Olin @oohcxcxn]

Pengen tarot reading ihh.. kek bingung bgt sama relationship gue ini pls. Padahal tahun depan rencana mau commitment, macam mana lah ini😔😔

[Olin @oohcxcxn]

Sudah saatnya pasang Pdam buat dirumah.. mau gak mau soalnya sumur kering bgt

[Iwalola Sobowale @IwalolaSobowale]

Took me 35 years to figure out that I can get whatever I want as long as I’m specific and decisive about what I want and I declare to myself that I’m going to get it, no matter what the present circumstances look like. Delulu is truly the solulu.

[𝓚 . @k_holicn]

Girl to girl… please understand that not every man who tells you he loves you is looking for something serious. Some men know exactly what women want to hear, and they'll say all of it just to get close to you. Pay attention to what happens when you set boundaries. Does he still respect you? Does he remain consistent when intimacy isn't on the table? Does he care about your life, your feelings, your future or does most of his effort suddenly appear when he wants something from you?

[kida @kidasnow]

you have to set boundaries early. be firm and not too nice. it sucks but it’s the only way to keep people from stepping all over you :/ if they’re intimidated but you’re also sweet person, they take advantage, so give them something to be intimidated by other than your looks

[🔮✨ @TheOracleReadsU]

Realize that you aren't the problem. Your heart is beautiful, and your intentions are pure. But you're giving your all to the wrong people, and that's why it's breaking you. Set some boundaries. It won't make you lose people. It will make you lose pretenders and manipulators

[Marcos Alvarado @marcosalvarado_]

Hard pill to swallow : many ppl benefit from your lack of self-love & boundaries. Set new standards & see who disappears from your life.

[MUSE. @BRATTYXSUSIE]

I’m proud of how I set boundaries now. If I dont want to, I dont. Simple and idc who dont like it.

[mamamoo @thelovelyMC]

she set her boundaries & rebuilt her life

[veena 🖤 @xxivorys]

set boundaries and be ok with losing people who are not for you

[🔮✨ @TheOracleReadsU]

Never tolerate disrespect. The more chances you give someone the less respect they'll start to have for you. They'll begin to ignore the standards that you've set because they know another chance will always be given. Set healthy boundaries, and foster good relationships.

[BABAH👽✨ @ustadchen]

Nice move! Gue selalu menyarankan ini ke temen-temen gue yang dighosting. Cut off, let go, move on.

“Terus gue harus apa sekarang🥹?” Now focus on you, your friends, your passion and hobbies, career, be genuinely happy, improve and glow up inside and out, be kind and SET boundaries, jangan terima lagi orang yang nggak menghargai kamu.

Now is the time to return the love you give others to yourself! Remember, desperation is not attractive. Confidence, self-respect, and emotional stability are. Know your worth and be at peace whether someone chooses you or not❤️😘

[sarah @heavenbrat]

when u set ur boundaries ur gonna lose people who don’t value them, and thats okay. continue to set them until the right people stay

[mei🍯 @meishanaomi]

Mau Berkembang? Harus Berani "Nggak Nyaman"

Kalau mau berkembang, kuncinya satu: kita harus berani hidup nggak nyaman. Karena pertumbuhan itu hampir selalu datang dari fase yang nggak enak.

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

I’m in love with this sentence:

“One of the most underrated skills you can learn is the ability to ignore your mood and stick with the plan.”

[Zoya @Zoyag9fc]

Somewhere between “I can do it myself” and “why am I doing everything myself” is the entire female experience.

[Iqbaaal @iqbalwfh]

tertampar banget sama kalimat ini.

"you learn to swim by getting in the water, not by studying water"

gue pernah nunda satu project lebih dari seminggu karena merasa, “ini bakal susah, gue ga bakal bisa.”

akhirnya gue cuma sibuk bikin planning yang gue kira itu produktif, ternyata itu cuma cara gue menghindari "mulai".

lucunya, pas deadline datang dan kondisinya berubah jadi “mau ga mau harus bisa”, project itu gue selesaiin dalam 3 hari super produktif alias ga tidur😌

kadang yang kita butuhin bukan planning yang terlalu sempurna. kadang kita cuma perlu nyemplung dulu.

[shunnii🫦 @ashantisearra]

to all my girls chasing a new chapter, be gentle with yourself. what's meant for you will always find you, so trust the process and give yourself grace. you got this! 💕💕