@bearwithnikki Months can feel like such a long time when you’re carrying the heartbreak alone. Healing isn’t a race and there’s no deadline for when you’re supposed to be okay. I hope you stop measuring your healing against their moving on.
@bearwithnikki Manipulatif akan selalu begini, Nder. Dia akan pakai playing victim card biar pacarnya yang sekarang gak sakitin dia kayak yang lo lakukan ke dia terus bakalan bisa jadi yang paling disakitin sama their past relationship. Biarin aja nanti juga bakalan ketahuan sendiri tingkahnya.
@bearwithnikki We’re sending you the biggest hugs from here. Thank you for holding on, even on the days it felt impossible. I hope gentler days find you soon.
@bearwithnikki It doesn’t always mean the spark is gone. Sometimes it just needs time, care, and a little hope to find its way back. I hope whatever you’re going through gets a little lighter, little by little. Please be gentle with yourself.
@bearwithnikki I don’t know what you mean by lost sparks whether it’s about a relationship, life, or just how you’ve been feeling lately. But whatever it is, I’m sorry it’s been weighing on your heart. Sometimes we mistake feeling exhausted, hurt, or overwhelmed for losing ourselves.
@bearwithnikki You don’t have to carry guilt for something that was never your responsibility. Be gentle with your younger self they deserved safety, not what happened to them. I’m sending you the biggest hug from here, Sender.
@bearwithnikki I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You were a child and none of it was your fault. The fact that your body responded doesn’t change what happened, it doesn’t mean you wanted it or deserved it. I hope one day you can look at your younger self with the same kindness.
@bearwithnikki Betul itu kata Bear. Sebetulnya mau teman kita ini ada pacar atau tidak, gak semestinya pertemanan juga jadi berubah dan dijauhi padahal kita sendiri gak ada masalah apa-apa. Tapi ini POV dari pacarnya, mungkin pacarnya sendiri melihat dari POV yang berbeda dari kita.