If I do get married, the girl has to pay for atleast 40% of the wedding,if she can't that means she isn't ready for marriage and should focus more on getting her money up.
I have spoken.
You aren't married yet, you don't have a mother-in-law yet, you probably don't have a fiancee, yet you are already living a trauma you haven't experienced/may never experience.
My sales girl mistakenly sent 600k to someone.
We called and called, the number wasn't going.
I went to the local government for a court order, they said I'd have to pay 10% first, then after I received the money, I'll settle them.
I asked what's the guarantee that I would get the money back, they said none.
I wanted to pay them but their arrogance ignited my arrogance and my ego felt insulted.
I decided to do it the next day.
That night, I removed the sim from my pos to sub it,messages started pouring in.
It turned out the guy saw the money and has been trying to call me too but the sim was inside pos so it wasn't connecting.
I called him back immediately.
He asked few questions and sent the whole money back.
Their papa for local government.
She didn't say anything wrong. Every woman reasons like her. Even your mother did. This is why a woman's first choice in a man is a financially stable man.
Women have maintained this standard for millennium right from our foremothers, mothers and modern women. No woman desires to marry a poor man despite most of them being poor.
I have no issues with their standards which is why I set my standards too. I can only marry a virgin from a financially stable home.
At the end of the day, everyone is entitled to set their standards. If you have a problem with her standards, set yours.
Nobody forced you to settle for less.
That you will tell a Commissioner for Environment to ease the smell and tonnes of waste in your city but people will be defending him like they are not affected by the same smell and garbage.
I still can’t believe this is really happening.