Btw let me say this to fellow family people and rest of you that are going to have families. I hear a lot being said about housemaids. And i dont understand it. Unless you were born in the 1960s, 2026 should be an age where we all agree hoisemaids are not some personal slave. It is employment and should have all the perks and workers rights afforded to any other worker, and your home viewed like every other workplace.
Maids do get sick. Maids need breaks. Maids deserve off days. Maids should be paid in time, and should be paid well.
If you cannot do those things, you shouldn't be part of the conversation about how maids are difficult people. Because you're also a terrible employer.
You cannot fault them for wanting to leave every 5 months when you're paying them crap. How many people would leave their place of work if they are getting paid well?
You cannot fault them for getting men either, you didn't hire a nun. Their job description is to do work for you around the house. That job description did not take away their hormones and natural instinct to mate and breed. Talk to them, involve yourself, and maybe you can extend that timeline a bit. But its going to happen. They are human. They want to be loved and want to have kids too. Its a given.
A lot of us do not know what good employment of a maid should be like because we have never experienced it. We grew up in households where they were literal slaves. And so that history acclimatized us to all the wrong perceptions of what a house help is and isnt.
Lastly, always remember that you do not have to have one. No one is forcing you to. Its your work and home life, figure it out. Do not have 4 kids and spread yourself thin. They are always going to be your personal choices that lead you to needing one.
@MaleAdvocate28 When tokiiya’s mother his beer caps in her Susu to tamper with evidence that she was selling an illegal beverage 😹😹😹 Then the afande who was the judge came for the hearing nga he’s drunk ate nga alinamu ekidumusi so got away with it