Girl to girl,
When it gets overwhelming, say a prayer, step outside, take a walk, go on a solo date and be kind to yourself. Do not forget keep going. God is with you, and you’re not losing your joy this year, not this year!💛
Sure I cried, I begged, l blew up your phone. I got angry, I wouldn't leave you alone. Sure I seemed crazy and annoying, but you can never say I didn’t try tho.
If you pay enough attention you can tell when someone isn’t really feeling you. They can be completely obsessed with you & still ghost you. Interest & attraction aren’t moral indicators. If you really want to know who they are… wait. Let me explain;
You guys need to be okay with relationships ending. You are an adult. Know that relationships end, people change, and that’s okay. Once you master this, you will not crumble when they do finally reach their expiry date.
I always wonder if cheaters ever think about the impact their actions have on their partners. The trauma, the insecurities—being cheated on leaves deep scars. Why not just leave when you no longer see someone’s worth?💔
Invest in what you eat. Conversations you have. Routines you keep. Boundaries you set up. How you spend your time. And also buy the stuff! lol love this ❤️