SIAPA YANG MENANGGUNG NAFKAH WANITA?
1. Sebelum menikah : ayahnya
2. Setelah menikah : suaminya
3. Jika bercerai atau suaminya wafat : anak laki-laki / cucu laki laki ( dari anak laki laki)
4. Jika tidak ada anak/ cucu laki laki : kembali ke ayah / atoknya
5. Jika ayah/ atoknya sudah wafat: saudara laki laki
6. Jika tidak ada : kerabat dari pihak ayah ( keponakan laki laki, paman, sepupu laki laki, meskipun ia punya penghasilan sendiri
Sementara itu wanita tidak dibebani kewajibkan menafkahkan siapapun, meskipun Ia punya penghasilan sendiri
Jika ada kesalahan silahkan koreksi🙏
Fun fact: when women are on their period, they're being flooded with testosterone. which means when men say we're emotional and hysterical on our period, it's actually because we're acting like a man.
Semoga Ramadan ini jadi pelukan bagi sakit yang kita simpan diam-diam. Semoga sujud di malam-malamnya menyembuhkan retak jiwa yang tak kasat mata, dan rahmat-Nya membasuh setiap luka tersembunyi yang tak pernah mampu kita bahasakan. Biar pulih, meski tanpa suara.
My roomate was attacked by her boyfriend in a jealous rage. He tried to choke her and instead of screaming or resisting she stayed calm and started to caress his face and then kiss him. This calmed him down and they spent the night together. The next morning she was on the train back to her hometown.
Men cannot even start to comprehend what women are sometimes forced to do to merely survive.