I need the girls to get DISGUSTED by a man never buying flowers, planning dates, building a bond, investing in & pouring love + effort into a good hearted woman that deserves it. GET DISGUSTED.
As a woman, I’ve learned some men don’t want communication. They want compliance. The moment you have a voice, you’re aggressive, toxic, and or argumentative.
i want anniversaries. i want someone to look at me and can't imagine life without me. i want unconditional love. i want healthy communication. i want the fireworks that never die. butterflies even after we're months/ years in.
Having a 2 parent household for your kids is such a blessing fr 😩🫰🏽it’s like.. you’re making dinner? ok, i’ll give the kids a bath. You’re washing the clothes? i’ll fold them after they dry. One kid is acting up? okay, you take them & calm them down while I make sure the other one is entertained. You woke up early with the kids this morning? ok, i’ll stay up later with them so you can sleep. We’re making it work as a TEAM so no parent feels overwhelmed or gets overstimulated.❤️💯
I wanna marry into a functional family not just me & him in our own little world. I’m talking cookouts, game nights, holiday dinners, birthdays that actually mean something. I wanna go get breakfast with my mother-in-law, go shopping with his siblings, feel included fr. I don’t want it to just be “us” all the time, I want a family that’s really family oriented.
This is why as soon as a nigga get to itching like he need some new pussy added into the mix, I dead the situation and get some new dick …. LETS ALL HAVE FUN