It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.
Three women who died in the sea off Brighton beach have now been named as Jane Adetoro (36), Christina Walter (32), and Rebecca Walter (31).
All three were Black women.
Rest in peace to Jane, Christina and Rebecca. Sending love and condolences to their families and loved ones.