Orthodox Asf ✝️🦅

greater heights🦅

[Ik Nnadi 🇳🇬 @NnadiArts1]

Please don’t scroll past. I tried so hard.❤️

[Illimitable Man (IM) @SovereignIM]

The amount of respect you command is a direct byproduct of how high functioning you are, for high stress tolerance commands respect where low stress tolerance undermines it.

In simple terms: if you can outwardly handle stress with greater composure than others, you will naturally command more respect than they do. Respect thus accrues not as a conscious decision, but as an instinctive response to your conduct.

People will subconsciously evaluate your competence, placing you into one of two categories: asset or liability. If you are consistently steady under pressure and difficult to unsettle, you are deemed an operational asset, but if you collapse emotionally, offend easily, or routinely punish others for telling hard or sensitive truths, you will flag as a liability.

Respect and authority flows to those who are deemed assets. Would you want a leader with poor stress tolerance who is prone to outbursts, collapse or destabilisation? Of course not. That would unsettle you. You would prefer someone who remains poised under pressure, because you would feel safer with someone with an exceptional capacity to metabolise stress even beyond what is objectively healthy or humane. Leadership as such gravitates to those who are able to bear more than their fair share of stress, not to those who impose their emotional turbulence on to others the very moment they are subjected to it.

You seek someone unnaturally strong, who is capable of carrying not just their own burdens, but likewise yours. But you are neither unique or alone in holding that preference, for it is the underlying mechanism which determines how people intuitively designate leaders. To desire authority over others whilst being a source of emotional turbulence is thus not just naive, but incredibly immature. Authority necessarily then gravitates to those who serve the most stabilising function, because when it is given to the incapable, it results in dysfunction and tyranny.

High functioning individuals inspire trust, because they manage destabilising, urgent, or sensitive information without unravelling. Low functioning individuals erode trust, because they amplify chaos, crumble under pressure, and turn urgent or sensitive matters into liabilities, thereby imposing burdens which others are forced to carry in their place.

This is why if you want a relationship built on full and clear mutual transparency, you must be able to bear the costs of what you ask for. Both sides must be capable of absorbing shocks, disappointments, conflicts, and unpleasant truths without collapsing into hysteria or destructive anarchy. Respect simply is not owed, but earned. You are not entitled to what you have not proven you can endure, for it is the weight you are unable to carry that will define the limits of what others can trust you with.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

Another perfect day to clear up some common misconceptions.

Listen:

1. You don't NEED antibiotics when you have a cold.

2. You CANNOT shift anybody's womb. You cannot even reach it. Don't be stupid.

3. Diabetes is NOT caused by adding too much sugar to your garri.

4. For the last time, Typhoid is NOT malaria and malaria is not Tyforce. Stop diagnosing yourself of typhoid everytime you are ill or have a fever or stomach upset.

5. Hypertension ISN'T caused just by too much thinking.

6. You CANNOT "flush" ur system of illness by "pissing all the sickness away". They LIED to you..6. Your body doesn't need daily supplements. Just eat normally and healthy.

7. You do not need a special kind of tea to flush your system. You are not a public toilet.

8. Putting spoon in a person's mouth during a convulsion will NOT stop ANY convulsion.

9. Taking "Hampicloss" after sexual intercourse will NOT protect you from sexually transmitted infections or pregnancy.

10. Stop the daily douching and stop washing your vaginas with antiseptics. You are only exposing yourself to infections.

Oh... and this one is very important:

Slimming tea CANNOT remove all that fat. It will only make you purge till you are dehydrated (if you are very religious with it) and land you in the accident and emergency of the nearest teaching hospital to you. Go to a Gym, work out and DIET!

Pass it on if you care.

[🐬 @triplexdshott]

i will not accept you as you are o
me wey dey work on myself i no dey craze.

[Pulse Nigeria @PulseNigeria247]

“Nigerians love music so much because we don’t have therapists. Music is our escape.”

- Qing Madi

[99 Majik @99Majik]

Anytime you miss them, remember their level of disrespect

[21 Nut Savage 🏂 @yoitz21nut]

Rvssian x Rauw Alejandro x Wizkid “Pongo” now surpassed 2 Million streams on Spotify.

— It recorded 663,684 streams yesterday.

[RAÚL @rauwalejandro]

po po po po po pongooo

[Habibii @1realgadafi]

All man for himself sounds like a joke until you're at your lowest.

[Mapholoba @LuthandoFuze]

Do not tie your healing to the hope that someone is gonna regret what they did to you.

[Orthodox Asf ✝️🦅 @orthodoxasf]

I really think people don't understand how hard it is to be a Nigerian student strugling with debts,lectures,coursemates,depression alot to deal with.

[Asanwa.sol @Chizitere_xyz]

The hardest psychological pill you will ever have to swallow is realizing you are a victim of the "Mirror Fallacy."

​You keep getting betrayed, used, and disappointed by people, and you sit around wondering why you have such bad luck. You don't have bad luck. You have a massive projection problem.
​You keep looking at other people and expecting them to have your heart, your work ethic, and your sense of loyalty. You assume that because you would never lie to them, they would never lie to you. Because you would give them your last dollar, they would do the same.

People do not operate with your moral compass. Stop projecting your own character onto people who have repeatedly shown you they operate on pure survival and selfishness. You are breaking your own heart by expecting lions to eat grass just because you are a vegetarian.

[Rvssian @Rvssian]

PONGO @rauwalejandro @wizkidayo March 19

[Ebony Black @blackebony28]

Rauw Alejandro getting in the vibes with an unreleased track featuring Wizkid & Rvssian

dropping this Thursday! 🔥🔥🔥

[Wizkid Source @WizkidSource]

This Thursday! Rvssian x Rauw Alejandro x Wizkid! 🦅

[HONITEL👑 @HonitelHQ]

There is no reason any school should be keeping students in their institution until 4 p.m. This is not 2005. Why are you even conducting extra lessons between 2 p.m. and 4 p.m. after teaching them from 8 a.m. to 2 p.m.? How do you expect them to assimilate and actually like school?

Students in secondary school and university should be at home by 2 p.m. at the latest so that they have enough time to rest, learn a skill on the side, and still have time to study later.

Given the way the country has been, we must encourage those who are still in school not to focus only on their studies but also to learn a skill.

We have millions of unemployed graduates out there who are finding it hard to strike a balance because they did not have the luxury of time to learn a skill. The pattern must end now.

They lied to you, school alone won’t make you successful. It is not a scàm of course, but if you don’t learn a skill, what life will show you after graduation with your good grades, you won’t believe your eyes.

[Jay @JayBabyEars]

I promise you bro. When you play the role of a laid back quiet guy you can fool people man.

[Alabi @the_Lawrenz]

The moment you stop begging the crowd to clap, your hands become free to build.